Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
I hate when people can’t control their kids. Went to the dentist the kids just climbing all over stuff, bothering people and messing with this women’s hair. Raising my son to be respectful and not be a pest to people because it takes the right person to say something to the kid and here the parents go getting mad.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to me, picked him up and signed him out. While my man was still working out, I walked straight up to the general manager and told him I wanted to speak with him in his office. We reviewed the cameras together and my son was IN FACT not doing anything wrong but playing and she grabbed him by his arm for NO REASON and slammed him on the ground and he was on the ground for a good minute before getting back up. Right then and there was when we were called to come get him because he was supposedly throwing heavy toys at kids (which he never does). The manager apologized and then told us he would talk to her... what should we do?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
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Make sure he proves it as well. Talk is cheap
Jasmine Stilinski·
@shorty02, I definitely know. Thanks momma
🌻Luna🌻·
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I just hope he mans up for you and grows up to be responsible and treat you and your kids right instead of spitting cheap talk at you just to get in bed with you a few more times. My ex never owned up to the laziness until after I broke up with him. Now that I have found someone who treats me right he wasn't to spit all this you mean the world to me and I'm sorry bs. Talk is cheap. Actions speak loud then words. Always remember you are a strong women and your children come first .
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, that’s exactly why I left him. “Talk is definitely cheap” I’m strong minded plus I have a daughter to teach & a son to raise. Ik he feels that way. But he still needs time to himself for him to grow more. I believe if I stay away 4rm him for 2 Years or so cos I plan on it that he will get his Shyt together. He’s 30 & I’m already seeing I’m change. But who knows he might be the same guy.
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, I know my ex still loves me and he's super sweet and a good guy but he too needed to grow up. I have goals and if he's not going to help me move forward. He's gotta go 👎🏻
Some guys just need time away. He will either man up and change or then you will know he's not the one.
The last thing you want is your children thinking a man like that's ok to have or be.
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, I'm always here if you need to talk. Your very strong for making that decision. A lot of women stay to long or struggle to.
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, I prayed for my courage I won’t lie. We all need god. I needed god to help restore my life, my happiness for my children & Myself. I prayed for strength that one day I will be so tired of the bs that I’ll leave & never look back. & that’s exactly wat happened. I haven’t looked back since.
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, that’s wat I said I gotta teach my daughter to learn to walk away. Especially if she’s unhappy, unloved feeling lonely, miserable & bitter. She needs to know that she has to leave for the better of herself. If I stayed then I would be teaching my son to treat women like that & for my daughter to accept that 4rm a man. I’m glad I left. I’m teaching them the rite things. Kids definitely learn 4rm their parents
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, I will always pray for the happiness of others as well as my own.
I learned what not to do and not to put up with from my mom. Both my dad and step dad were pieces of sh!t and she stayed for a while. I told myself I'd never let a man bring me down after that
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, that’s why I do everything for my daughter. Especially as a girl.
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, been watching this little nugget for my mom. She babysits 4 kids and has lumped me into helping
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, too cute. They look so peaceful when they’re sleeping
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, until they wake up and cry xD
Jasmine Stilinski·
@colorfuldreams, 😂😂😂😂😩💀 yes omg. My kids all the way🙌🙄
🌻Luna🌻·
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@aydensmommy, this kid just cries and cries. You can't put him down