is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol
My mum is a survivor Or so I have heard it said. But I can hear her crying When all others are in bed. I watch her lay awake at night And go to hold her hand. She doesn't know I'm with her To help her understand But like the sands upon the beach That never wash away. I watch over my surviving mum Who thinks of me each day. She wears a smile for others. A smile of disguise. But through heaven's open door. I see tears flowing from her eyes. My mum tries to cope with my death To keep my memory alive. But to anyone who knows her Knows it's her way to survive. As I watch over my surviving mum Through heaven's open door I try to tell her Angels protect me forevermore. I know that doesn't help her Or ease the burden she bears. So if you get a chance, talk to her And show her that you care. For no matter what she says. No matter what she feels. My surviving mum has a broken heart That time won't ever heal.
33 weeks 4 days today !! Had my appointment today for biophysical profile, and growth scan. At 28 weeks, she was in the 31 percentile, weighing 2 pounds and 1 ounce. Now she is in the 17th percentile, weighing 3 pounds and 1 ounce. I don't understand what I'm doing so wrong. 😢 my doctor will make me deliver if it drops to 10 or less, as she would be better out than in. Im 33 weeks 4 days, but my uterus is only measuring 31 weeks. Her heart rate was 132 today, her reflexes were great, she's a mover, her breathing movements were good, she had a few in a 30 minute period, they like to see atleast one in that timeframe. Also, my fluid level was at a 17, 10 to 25 is normal and she is head down in the birthing position. When we first started, she wasn't moving at all because she is stubborn like that, I swear she knows when she is getting an ultrasound and absolutely hates it. So the tech gave me two soft peppermints to get her to move , sure enough about 15 minutes later she was all over the place, first things first, her hands playing with her feet in front of her face just like last time. Lol she is something else, she must've liked the taste of the peppermint because not only did it get her to moving, but we could see her doing sucking motions with her mouth and sticking her tongue out. I love my silly girl, I actually have an ultrasound picture of that moment that I'm gonna share! My appointments are weekly now and im being monitored closely. I'm not sure what she scored on her BPP today, because my doctor was tied up with a delivery, so we will go over everything next Thursday following next weeks ultrasound as well as this one. I've been so down all day today.. sigh...
Dad's FB Video!! Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
Jess West·
Maybe give her one of your mum's tops with a splash of her scent/perfume on it could help xx
Catherine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@erincharlie1226 I've just showed her a picture of my mum and she's been pointing at it crying saying 'nanna, nanna' ..I was going to ask mum for a jumper she could sleep with. I wear the same perfume as my mum and I've tried spraying her comforter. It starts from the second I put her in the car and my mum's out of sight xx
K·
Do you plan on her seeing your mum 4/5 times a week for the foreseeable future? X @catherineln25
Catherine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chesscalouise2 yes hunny it's always been like that. I live 20 minutes from my childminder and she's 30 seconds away so I pretty much always go there for my tea once poppy has been at Mandys xx
Nade 🐻 ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Hi Catherine, your mom is obviously a security comfort to your daughter you lived with her for the first 7 months so naturally she has a close bond which is good but like you say it’s getting tricky with anxiety separation which I’m sure can cause distress on all parts. Have you considered dropping a day or 2 going round your parents so you don’t see them so much as it sounds as though and I’m not a professional here, but it sounds as though she needs so e space to establish a new routine maybe. Not saying forever but just so she can gain confidence without your mums presence always there maybe talk to your hea,th visitor it’s a tricky one is t it 😩