Not feeling very jolly. Kinda feel like a crap parent. I know she’s not even 2 so she doesn’t understand what Christmas…

Not feeling very jolly. Kinda feel like a crap parent. I know she’s not even 2 so she doesn’t understand what Christmas is, or why she got presents. I just feel like crap because she didn’t get anything from Mommy and daddy. We couldn’t afford anything.. my mom bought two small presents we could put our names on but still. I get on Facebook and I see these toddlers and kids opening so many presents and I feel bad I couldn’t spoil my princess like my parents use to do for me as a kid. I know that’s not the true meaning of Christmas but it just makes me sad.. hoping next year we’re better off and can afford to actually get her some stuff.

Don’t beat yourself up. Your a great mom and Christmas is about enjoying those moments with your family. Every parent feels like this when times are tough I’ve been there and I know what your feeling it will past though. Just be happy to be home with your child. Most people have to work on Christmas due to some companies that don’t value family time and holidays. Just cheer up and enjoy life while we have it and make the best of it. Make cookies watch cartoons take naps. I couldn’t afford much either I try to keep my chin up and be thankful. Take care and happy holidays.

Well I feel like a total failure. We were hoping by now we'd be able to buy christmas presents for the kids this year.…

Well I feel like a total failure. We were hoping by now we'd be able to buy christmas presents for the kids this year. Well here it is the 22nd and we can afford to get them anything... Hopefully next year will be better...

What do you think of this set?? I think I might be getting an early Christmas present ?

So this girl i am kinda friends with asked me if i feel like my face changed after having babies, because she felt like…

So this girl i am kinda friends with asked me if i feel like my face changed after having babies, because she felt like hers did majorly.. so i said other than my double chin & weight gain, no.. and i told her she looks great after having two kids! and she goes on to say - "don't be offended, but you LOOK like a mom ." 😳 she was trying to make me feel like shit. I feel like I look the same.. & the way she said was obv meant to offend me 😡 like, she just made me feel like complete crap.

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.