how do you mommas deal with your spouses or boyfriends that don t do affection or let you know they love you other than they work and take care of the home. I need affection and know that I'm loved but feeling really depressed . we make love and everything but ever since he became a dad we don't do anyrhing like go out or have crazy sex anymore. I don't know maybe I'm being selfish but I want his love in another way.