What do other mom’s out there do when they have reached their mental frustration with everything ie: cooking, cleaning, planning outing, and your spouse doesn’t understand the need for a break.
I don’t have family to help much. I have been trying to get them more involved. I don’t speak to my only sibling so I go to my husband’s 4 other siblings
Do you have family around? Sometimes I just need a break and my spouse just doesn’t get it so I get a babysitter or my mom to watch him. U need time for u!!
Cry.... like just let it all out. (Legit happened 3 days ago) let let a family member or friend watch baby over night, drink a bottle of wine, have rough sex and then sleep....like a baby.....and then wake up late, go for a walk. Put yourself back together, go pick up your baby and get back to business. It’s TMI but still.
Go get pampered and just make an appointment and bounce sometimes you have to be assertive and when your spouse can't comprehend with words then it's time to express with action 🤗
I like to sit around and watch the kids play while I enjoy a glass of wine. Or do it when they go to bed. Great way to unwind