I usually don’t like to complain but I really need to rant:
Ever since we brought the baby home (2 weeks ago) my husband has basically checked out. I have given up a lot to make sure she is taken care of and happy. He still plays video games until 1AM then watches Game of Thrones until 3-4. He has today off of work finally and left this morning to golf. I asked him to stay home so I can just take one hour and get my nails done for the military ball tonight and he told me I should just paint them my self. I just feel like I’m the only one putting effort in. I take care of her, do our laundry and all the dishes while also trying to make sure I get sleep and eat. I swear I can sleep while standing now and I haven’t even opened my textbooks for school once. I’m super overwhelmed and I just wanted one hour but he wouldn’t give it to me because it interfered with his golf. 😑
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@randie.raye, girl na , men don't change once you let them get away with things that's it!! I was just like you I cleaned the house took care of my son fed and bath him got him ready every time we were going somewhere everything and he would use work as an excuse oh I work that's enough but no . Is your job to take care of that baby but is also his
@makeupbyyazx, I can’t just break up with him. I’m not by any family and I want this to work. I just need his help and he doesn’t get it. He thinks that just because he’s the only one working right now that’s all he needs to do. I’m literally do the dishes, laundry, taking care of her getting everything ready for her Grandpa to watch her, and trying to get my self looking somewhat presentable. I almost don’t want to go to the ball tonight but I’ve been home since we’ve brought her home
@randie.raye, I broke up with him I told him you want to act like you are single and be out all the time and when I go out there's always an issue . He can be single and I will take care of my kids but I'm not going to be with him when he doesn't help me or bitches when he does for 30 mins
@makeupbyyazx, how do you not go crazy? I just want to slap him
I think a lot of men act like this . My babies father does this and this is our 3rd baby but I broke up with his aass I can't go this shit anymore..
I broke up with him and I moved to his town where I'm far away from my family and his family supports me because what he is doing is not right . Don't make excuses for yourself . Now we are on baby #3 and he still doesn't help me!