I hate living in a house with other people. Can't wait to find ally have enough saved up to get my own place! It makes having 3 kids under the age of 3 so much harder!! When my two oldest (1 1/2 & 3) are in trouble, I put thenm in time out just for the roommates (who are also close family) to get em out. EVEN when I tell them not too. At night time I do self sleep, they out their selves to bed and when they wake up and wine, I let them cry themselves back to sleep. (as long as their not crying for like ever or crying like their dying, an I know their okay.) And the roomeys go an get em up. EVEN after I said not too. Or when their throwing their toddler tantrums, I ignore em and they'll eventually stop but roomeys wanna put their two cents in an make everything worse. Not sure if they really love the boys so much they can't help but spoil them or if they just hate me lol (bc we don't always get along) but either way this routine and ways has worked wonders until I hit rock bottom and had to live with em and now my kids are worse then they've ever been. Idk if it's where they've gotten older so their tantrums are worse or if it's where every time I try to discipline them, the roomeys disrespect me by going against my rules , witch is teaching my boys to do the same (is what I'm thinking ) I just don't know what to do. And nothing I say is working. And that drives me insane on top of having kids who drive me insane! (Witch I obviously love though) on top of having a newborn! Ugh 😢 any advise?? I've reached my limit.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
i got my first hemmiroid today omg are u kidding me!!! it feels really uncomfortable will it still be okay to have sex or will it make the pressure worse/:
Anyone have preterm labor? I got this unbearable pain in my back, worse that normal and I have had horrible back pain this whole pregnancy...then I started getting cramps super low in my abdomen...they felt constant but I was in so much pain they I didn't time them or anything. I was crying so bad it hurt. And I have a lot of pressure on my vagaga...does this sound like preterm labor? I'm about to call my dr
These contractions are getting worse even the nurse said the monitor is showing how constant I’m having them and how bad they are.