Hi I havent been here for little awhile but I need help with my sister she is 28 years old and has 1 year old and she want to go out every weekend and leave the baby with me overnight and I told her I don't watch kids overnight anymore due to having 2 of my own and also she keep asking me to pay her gas bill and phone bill and electric bill and when I tell her no she says will u have husband to help u a d I dont have anyone and them she say I won't ever ask u anything again and that I don't care about her kid I'm so lost of what to do I don't even know plz help me out on how to talk tp her?😥
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Tell her to grow the fuck up.
I’ll be 28 in January. I get help with one bill (my Nana pays my phone bill because she gets a major discount on it), other than that, I pay my shit.
I had my first at 21 and yeah, I wanted to go out. My parents watched him so I could go here and there, but I didn’t get full night’s away. If she’s 28 and only has a 1 year old, that means she could have had 6 years to be out and about partying/clubbing, whatever. Life changes when you have a kid. Definitions of fun change. All nighters mean staying up with your kid, bottle service isn’t about the booze anymore, it’s about milk and juice.
Bills and necessities should always come first, entertainment is last.
If its only your husband working then its like just one income why she complaining? She a grown ass women if she got money to go spend then she better learn how to save it to pay her bills. 28 is to grown to try to act like a irresponsible child.
She’s taking advantage. You don’t get help, your in a relationship. What you have going on has nothing to do with her. Don’t let her manipulate you.