Why do some people think that mothers are just mothers and that that's the only thing they're allowed to do? No! I am a mother but I am also me and I have wants and needs as every other human being does. I will not forget about taking care of myself just because I have a child. Being happy and taking care of myself doesn't mean I'm selfish and that I'm not prioritizing my child's needs, it means that I will be able to be the best I can be for this little person I am responsible for. Mothers can't give what they don't have, so how can people expect our children to be happy and physically and mentally healthy if we're not? Some people want to act like becoming a parent suddenly makes us the worst and most despicable human beings in the world and that everything we do is wrong. STOP THE MOMMY SHAMING AND FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING MOTHERS WHO ARE DOING THEIR BEST EVERYDAY!