Does anyone else's child's father (of not together of course) send the kid back nasty? Like he usually only has her Saturday nights, sometimes Friday night too. I get her back Sunday and she is always dirty. I never send her to him that way. I'll admit when we first broke up I did but that was on him too because he would never tell me what time he was found to get her so the most warning I had was him calling from my driveway. Usually at the time we just woke up. So that wasn't my fault and I adressed it with him and we came up with a pretty regular time so That wont happen. Same for when I get her back. He always drops her off at my work around the time I get off. A few times he drops her off in the exact same clothes I sent her in. Obviously in awful shape. Her face will be dirty, her hair will be a mess, her clothes are filthy. Now I can sort of understand her hair because most men don't know how to "do" a little girls hair but he could at least brush it. And he also has a girlfriend who lives with him who could help? He pretty much never sends her back in shoes. At most he will bring them but not put them on her. And i don't believe kids need baths every single day but at least maybe wipe her face and hands off when she gets sticky? Idk it bothers me and i plan to mention it next week but just wondering if I'm asking too much or if that is a reasonable request.
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CPS took away my friends kids from their father and gave her full custody because he did that to their kids and she reported him for it. He had to go to child classes and court to earn his right to have them back.
You're not asking too much, my oldest daughters dad is the same way, she comes back in the same clothes on Sunday that she went to his house on Friday in. And honestly it bugs the shit out of me. Now a lot of the time she I won't even get the stuff I send with her back. He also has a girlfriend that lives with him and she has kids of her own. I get very upset when my daughters things don't come back with her, I'm not trying to provide for their kids too. But my child doesn't run around dirty when she's with me so I would expect her to be clean while she is with her father, but they don't seem to think it's a very big deal.
Address it girl . That is a LITTLE GIRL btw , his girlfriend can help . And show her that it's always important to be clean..
Lmao yes . It's super frustrating. Mine isn't as bad but my kid is always naked and wet or sticky.
YES. drives me insane. She comes home all greasy and sweaty with dirt and sand in her hair. He doesn’t feed her dinner and usually brings her back at 8 and bedtime is 8:30 so I’m stuck trying to get her fed and in bed in a short amount of time. Your requests aren’t unreasonable. He needs to be a parent not just a babysitter