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Chrysta
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Honestly I didn't grow up on very healthy food and I'm not use to healthy food. It doesn't taste good... But I want my…

Honestly I didn't grow up on very healthy food and I'm not use to healthy food. It doesn't taste good... But I want my child to eat healthier then what I did. But I can't seem to transcend into a healthy diet. And it honestly pissing me off. Now more then ever because I don't have a proper stove or oven. I have a heating plate and now a toaster oven but hardly any room to cook. And I get home at like 5:30 and don't want to cook for 2 hours. Since we have only ONE heating plate. Its kinda depressing. Also... My fiance constantly brings up post pardum depression... Thinking ill get it since I already have depression.. And I know he is trying to prepare me... But at the same time he is scaring me and making me nervous and frightened... Making me think I'm going to hurt my baby... And its literally putting me in a deeper depression... And I'm constantly wondering if I'm ready or thinking oh no I'm not ready... And I'm doubting myself...

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mommyofhonor

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And being worried n nervous is normal it just means you care plus you already love your baby 💕

lost.sock.thief

Tara🤙🏻

Try looking up recipes that don’t involve heat and cooking, buy precooked foods if you can. I had depression bad before I was pregnant, you just have to avoid ppd by not becoming introverted don’t stay in the house all day and night . have people around you people visiting go visit people make friends with neighbors, I heard breast feeding helps curve PPD

mommyofhonor

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You will do good hun.. just tell your fiancé that you don’t like it that he keeps bringing it up because of the way it makes you feel.. u will do fine maybe slowly transition into healthier options I’m sure that will help to do little things here n there

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I'm literally in the same situation. We're in a tiny studio with only a hot plate, a mini fridge, and we just recently got a toaster oven. That leaves us with about a square foot of counter space for preparing food. We also only have about $50 a week for food. I'm also nervous and scared because I have depression and I don't feel ready either, but we have to remember that it's totally normal for us to feel this way. Every first time mom is scared and nervous even if she doesn't say it. I have so much experience with babies and kids in general and I'm still terrified of having my own baby. You just gotta take it day by day or you'll drive yourself mad with anxiety.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?