Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
I don't even recognize my child anymore 😢 It's going to be a long couple months trying to straighten him back out. I just hope I can. He absolutely hates me for disciplining him. And apparently his dad has taught him a colorful assortment of cuss words 😡
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Margaret Cox·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)
Have your friend call the police and get them for stealing.
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That's straight theft and they obviously had to go onto your property to get it so that's trespassing. They wanna be petty, you gotta get petty too.
Kristle Lendin Aaron·
Мама двоих (младенец)
thats inhumane tho..id never do that to my pets and i had dogs tell they passed from old age
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
В ожидании первенца
No it's not inhumane at all. It's for their safety? Only get shocked when they do something they aren't supposed to do. The shock isn't bad. It's like when you spank a kid. Enough to get their attention so they know it's something they shouldn't do and keep them away. Some people are too damn sensitive. It would be different if you shocked the dog for barking or anything but to keep him away from the road and for his safety it's fine. That's what they are made for.
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@courtneyraelochamy
Exactly. My grandma had one for her dog and I put it on because I felt bad and even on the highest shock it didn't hurt it was just surprising.
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
В ожидании первенца
@damiensmommy1117, I've done similar. It mean it doesn't feel pleasant but it's the same amount of pain and being struck by a hand.
lauren·
I have two shock collars and they are far from inhumane. They would never make them if it was to brutally hurt the dog
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@courtneyraelochamy, @damiensmommy1117, right!! I’m like what the heck lol it’s inhumane to let my dog go onto the road and get hit by a car when there was a way to prevent it!! He knows not to go into the road but the moment he realizes he doesn’t have the collar on he always goes and lays on it for some reason! He is mostly an inside dog so we only put it on him when he goes out side and then take it off when he wants back in lol but it’s like a $500 system and the collar itself is $250 so we want that back! And my friend called the cops and they are druggies so let’s just hope they stay away for awhile
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
В ожидании первенца
@sharonpaige13, people are just overly sensitive and need to get off their mommas tit over some thing for real. And good the cops need to be called. That's theft and worth enough money to be a big deal. I hope you get it back. That's ridiculous it's not theirs to take.
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@courtneyraelochamy, oh yeah! It is a big deal! That and our shed door was wide freaking open when my friend came over to my house to chill for awhile and I’m like that’s great! Just what I needed to deal with on vacation lol
Nickel ·
Мама сына (2 года)
Imhumane my ass. What’s in humane is the people who keep their dogs chained 24/7 and never let them inside. Atleast your doggo gets free range to roam and only shocked to keep home from getting hit 🤦🏼♀️🤔 people these days...
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@mommyof1boyy, he is also inside most of the day! And then when he wants outside we let him out he stays out as long as he wants and comes back to the door when he wants back inside! Like I give my dog the option of being outside or inside lol
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@all4myprinces actually the shock isn't that bad. It's just like static electricity. I hated the idea for years and started doing more research into it.
Kristle Lendin Aaron·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@maesmommy04 would you do that to ur kids though a dog ain't just a pet it family
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@all4myprinces my pets have always been like kids to me. You ain't gotta give me that lecture. You're saying you never shocked your sibling or friends or had anyone shock you? It's more of a startle than a pain. They make prank gums and toys that do the same thing. A quick shock. My parents pranked me like that when I was a kid. You gonna say my parents weren't treating me like family?
Paige Rue·
Мама сына (1 год)
@maesmommy04, I have to agree with you! It’s like spanking is a way you do it to make a point not hurt them! And I feel that is how a dog would be too! We never laid hands on our dogs! But I think it would be inhumane to let him get hit on the road rather then take a little shock that doesn’t even make him yell or anything people are obviously not seeing the point in that
Kimberly Leturgez·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@sharonpaige13 exactly. Spanking is a wonderful analogy. Would you rather your child get seriously injured or a quick pop on the butt? I can't afford a system like that so I've popped by pups with a paper. And it gets the point across. They learn not to get into things that could hurt them. Someone I know doesn't believe on disaplining their dog. One night he got chicken bones out of the garage and they had to pay a giant vet bill. Pup almost died. They could have been prevented by teaching him. Just like kids I want my furbabies safe too
Kristle Lendin Aaron·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@maesmommy04 I never cared to play that way not even with my sons...