I need to vent ,my boyfriend ,my two boys and myself live with his parents . I work full time so my boyfriend / father of my boys watches the kids while I'm away at work .well have the time his parents are here and they do most of tending to the kids which I'm against .anyways they think they know what is best for my kids ect. I have to put up with them running my life and my children's if it's not done there way or when they say it then I'm not a mother to my babies I'm so feed up with it ! My boyfriend refuses to work so it's left up to me to do / buy everything which I do not have a problem with at all but it would be nice to have some help on top of all that I'm buying a car so my boys have reliable transportation to Dr appoints ect. It's just hard as hell on me to leave my babies here all the time so I can work and make a living to support them and then to come back here and have his parents tell me I have no mother instinct and that if I don't want them to tell me how to raise my children then I need to get our own place well I can totally understand getting our on place I'm up for that 100%. But there is a catch my boyfriend doesn't want to move off the property because when his dad passes away he wants to inherit everything and he thinks if he moves away he won't which is bull shit !! How in the hell do I get them off my back especially when I'm doing everything in my power for my kids ! I'm so sick of it !!!
@littleonemorning it does seem scary , knowing them they would fight it and try to find me unfit ect. . .
@jadedyer66, I understand that momma, but you also can't run yourself ragged. And you also have to think about the example it's setting for your boys. It seems scary, but it might be for the better.
@littleonemorning I have put my foot down does no good and it's hard for me to just leave because I don't want a big ol custody battle...
@jadedyer66, wow. See that wouldn't fly with me. My advice is put your foot down. You shouldn't have to bend over backwards for a man who wouldn't do his share. They are his kids too.
@littleonemorning his mom and dad has always supported him that's the only thing I can think of plus his lazy when it comes to work any kind of work
@jadedyer66, 😓 prove then wrong. They will have nothing to use against you considering their son doesn't do crap! They really have no long to stand on.
Honestly, start doing your research. Look into family court, reach out to people and save, save, save.