How did you single moms deal with the dads denying your baby? I am going through it and I wanna completely kill him.…
How did you single moms deal with the dads denying your baby?
I am going through it and I wanna completely kill him. He's denying it because he's 20 & "he's not ready" but neither am I & honestly I knew that the moment I found out. I'm against abortion and I'm already so attached to my little bean that adoption couldn't be an option, I lost a god daughter to adoption & it broke me so I'm going to assume that my own child would only be 10 times worse. I just don't know what to do... any advice ?
jenna bos·
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Yea sadly im gonna be a single momma too he told me the day he found out i was pregnant was the happiest day of his life and he said he would there but he refuses to tell anybody im pregnant and hasnt helped support me in any way so idk why guys lie it sucks but i gotta do what i think is right for my kid and me
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
A lot of guys do it. I think he's probably feeling many emotions right now. Maybe he needs time to process all of it.
Cece Minshall·
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@shiannemarieexo oh my god.. I am so sorry, I know what thats like. I am so happy they ruled it out, you are one strong momma :)
Shianne Mariee·
Мама дочки (4 года)
Sorry, two weeks before I conceived. *@mommaxbearx,
Shianne Mariee·
Мама дочки (4 года)
@mommaxbearx, there isn't no other possibilities, yes I was raped 2 weeks before I found out but ultrasound techs and my doctors have ruled that possibility out.
Shianne Mariee·
Мама дочки (4 года)
@kambam, I'm not trying to force him to be there, but why say you'll be there and then deny the baby?
Cece Minshall·
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I kind of went through the same thing, only there were 2 possibilities. My husband and my ex lover my ex said he wasnt ready and I am not one to force someone into something they dont want to do so I gave him an out. & Just did me and I know its different because my husband is still here but maybe you should just focus on you and your little one :) this is YOUR time dont let anyone ruin it for you.
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
There's no way to force his involvement. He knows, now its up to him. Focus on yourself and the baby. Stay healthy, strengthen your support systems, do you. Everything will be ok just stay strong!