@jdgregg that why I do my best not to take anything from people

This stuff was borrowed to us when we got our first apartment here, we needed it then. But since we got a house now, and baby coming we bought new stuff and have extra now and no room for the other stuff and folks told us....when you get ready to get rid of it we want it back, Don't sell it or trash it. Now they went ghost with being able to,come pick up the stuff....

I agree my ml tried to offer me some used furniture and then I ask my hubby do she have used furniture in her house.