I think my biggest pet peeve right now is the fact that the apartment is a disaster and as I try to clean it my SO just sits there on his phone not helping. Doesn't even think to ask if I want help. I spent 3 hours cleaning the kitchen yesterday and I had the living room and dining room clean and it's all messy again. Minus the kitchen because I told him I would kick him if he messed that up that bad again. He doesn't ever help unless I'm too sick and he's super pissed there's no dishes or he's tripping over stuff which is rare that he actually follows through and cleans anything.