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Муж делает ремонт во второй квартире, туда сразу после работы, домой приходит часам к 11 вечера самое раннее. И нет бы, все дела сделать до его прихода, на меня жор и уборка и душ нападают именно тогда. А так хочется, чтобы он отдохнул. Поэтому сразу идем спать..... В итоге картина маслом - темная комната, он уже спит рядом, и я в полной кромешной тьме с мобильником и тарелкой грызу у него прям под ухом яблоко и зерновой батончик. В тишине звук как будто гравий перемалываю зубами 😩И чувствую себя именно так ;) 🐹 И как они нас вообще терпят беременных ?))))) 😅😁

wow hubby is somethin else. apparently he decided to delete and block me from his facebook. like fucking really? on another note, my extent of cleaning today was sweeping and mopping all the floors. and then I sat around until my mom came home and we went shopping for more baby shower stuff. came home and painted more of the nursery. currently, the pink isn't taking very well, so I hate it and I want to cry 😢 I hope a second coat does the trick or I'm going to ball my eyes out.

If I am renting a bedroom out of a 3bedroom apartment, and give money to the person on the lease for rent, is it legal for her to not spend money on the actual rent???? I just saw a note on the door yesterday that was a 3 day notice and it clearly said rent had not been paid (even partially) for Dec or Jan. I know I gave her half the rent both times (she in fact gets a little rude about it). Now...I am already frustrated I have to move right when the twins are due, but I am curious where the hell the money is going, her daughter didn't get any Xmas presents, no rent was paid, and she supposedly went to work several days of the week a bunch of times. Can she take rent money from me and not spend any money at all on rent???

У меня двое детей! Младшей 3 мес... К нам сегодня внезапно приехали гости, а я на маникюр записалась, оставила мужа с детьми и с гостями. Дома меня не было 3 часа, приезжаю и ужас.... В доме бардак, на столе куча грязной посуды.... , муж с детьми спит. Я прошу помоги мне убрать, а он отвечает: ты что на работе была??? Убирай я устал. Я первый паз за 2 мес себе уделила 3 часа времени и потом должна еще после его посиделок убирать....😡😡😡😡 Как объяснить мужу что мне надо помогать???????????😥😥😥😥😥

My boyfriend and I really need to quit eating out... But that's hard when my landlord won't fix the plumbing in our house. We can't use the kitchen sink or guest bathroom, so we can't do the dishes... We've been eating cereal out of red solo cups and reusing spoons. The struggle is so real.

omg I hate roaches !!! I am terrified of them , one getting in the bed is the last straw lol, I can't wait until we get our house and move out these apartments , no matter how clean u keep ur apartment if u live next to nasty mofos and ppl constantly moving in and out their gonna be in ur home, I'm laying down and all of a sudden here crawls a little roach saying hi , I screamed ah and it ran lol I sprayed it's nasty ass , is that weird that bugs with long wiggly legs creep me out ? well I'm mostly afraid of roaches because of the way they look , I know their nasty too , but they look so Damn ugly and creepy , now every time my body has a little tickle or itch I'm paranoid lol

I'm due in like 3 weeks and my apartment complex chooses to tell us 2 DAYS BEFORE THAT THEY WANNA FUMIGATE ON SATURDAY MORNING. 😤 I've spent so much time nesting and setting everything up for him to now have to pack everything in boxes again and take everything out so they can fumigate and take out our carpet completely. It's a good thing, because hopefully it'll stop my daughter and I from being bit up and make it a safer place once he gets here. It's just a pain in the ass and shitty timing when I've been trying to get this to happen for months.

so stress rant for just a minute... I lost my job at the beginning of the month which caused us to not be Able to pay rent my fiance told me multiple times "don't worry babe I'll take care of it" well last week I received our eviction notice which said we had 5 days to pay or move out. in a pain I went to him to try and come up with a solution he said "don't worry I'll get it taken care of" so our deadline day was today and I asked him 6 times to call the landlord and speak with them and see if they would work with us because we don't have the funds he tells me "why can't you do it?!" uh I had my car insurance company to call and talk with because the body shop who is working on my vehicle from a wreck last month is screwing me over so I thought it would be fair that he takes care of the landlord and I take care of my insurance issue. But he expects me as the pregnant one to deal with it all just because in not working right now... I haven't taken care of it myself because I was told m

so last night my idiot other half broke the handle of our back door by accident and spent ages trying to open the back door (we have a dog) then told me because he was in work early this morning how to open the door when me and our 4 year old get up. so I tried to let the dog out an couldn't for the life of me open the door. it jams already and it has no friggin handle plus I'm 38 weeks pregnant I'm hardly hulk hogan. so then I tell him on the phone an he kicks off because he has to come home on his break to open it for us! then phones me back an demands I make him bacon butties for when he gets here not even bothering to tell me what time his break is. so then I phone him back to ask an he puts the phone down because 'he is in work!' so I didn't make them cos I didn't even know what time he would be here an then he shows up asks if I done them then kicks of calls me selfish and walks out?!? when in this post do I say I was the one who broke the door? needed the rant! bet others can re

Apparently everything is on me to do, I've got clean my entire apartment when there are two other adults here and there is stuff cleaning wise I shouldn't be doing, all the cooking is on me, and dishes and all laundry. Seriously about to mentally break, both bathrooms need cleaned, laundry is piled up from 7 people, the entire house needs a serious cleaning and to top it off I have no clue what I have or need for Joshua still because my apartment is in such a mess.

ugh I'm so pissed!!! Our last roommate moved in for like a week was late on giving us money, left his cat here (which both me and gf are allergic to) without food or litter for 5 days! No contact to us whatsoever, and since the cat didn't have any litter it used our clean clothes bucket as its litter box!!!! And we don't have the money to do laundry because he jipped us out of the money!! The cat is gone but his stuff is still here and all of our clothes are either regular dirty or smell like cat piss and shit!! I'm so mad!!!!!

Ladies, I've been looking in the classified ads, online and just riding around, searching, for a place for my family of 5 to live. Any other ideas/suggestions? Thanks, in advance!

my cat just literally peed on my floor right in front of me...good thing I have hardwood floors 😠😠😠😠 my husband really sucks at keeping the litter boxes done...i swear I hate being that nagging wife but this is one thing I can't be quiet about!!!! I have a few more weeks before I can just go do it myself and honestly I'm looking forward to it so I k ow they get done...my cats went from having it done once a day to once a week bcuz my husband thinks he just needs to do it on trash day 😑😑😑😑

SORRY IN ADVANCE!!!! I AM SO TIRED OF BEING THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO DO ANYTHING AROUND MY HOUSE...... I HAVE A 1 YR OLD SO. WHO I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR, BUT MY 11 YR D DAUGHTER, AND MY 32 YR OLD HUBBY ARE OLD ENOUGH TO PICK UP AFTER THEMSELVES. I HAVE TO DO EVERYTHING IF I WANT IT DONE; LAUNDRY, DISHES, TAKING OUT THE TRASH, CLEANING THE HOUSE, AND COOKING ALL THE MEALS. WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE NOW DAYS? I AM 30 WKS PREGNANT AND CAN BEARLY MOVE BUT I AM STILL EXPECTED TO GET EVERYTHING DONE AND TAKE CARE OF MY 1 YR OLD, WITH NO HELP...... IM BOUT TO SNAP!!!! FRFR

so I live here with my fiance and his mom and two kids we have a big apartment,him and I have a good sized room to share with the baby and it's hard to stop myself from nesting outside of the room,I always have cleaned the whole house and his mom and kids trash it over and over so I'm retaliating and I'm only cleaning after myself and my fiance to show them what it's like to live with the lack of respect and the lack of cleanliness that they show me and it's killing me because I like things to look nice and neat and they refuse to clean anything,can't wait to move out.

I am so tired of people constantly coming to the house, I hardly got a second alone the whole time we were at the hospital. I'm home upstairs in my room been trying to get him good and asleep for awhile but literally as soon as I'm about to walk downstairs my sister shows up with her 3 kids and everyone is so fucking loud I can hear every little noise and so now as I've been starving for hours I can't even go downstairs in my own house. Then the baby will be awake soon and it'll take me another hour or so to get him situated and fed changed etc and pump. I'm about to lose it. Plus I've been trying to get ready for awhile now too for pictures and it's just not happening.

stuck sleeping on the floor... I only visit a few days a week if that.. I visit the times where his daughter who is 7 should be at her mom's (alone time is nice when you never see each other) which its fine she's here I love this little girl whatever, shes extremely babied never gets told no...but the two of them take up the entire bed. and I get stuck on the floor. when I get my apartment back here, I'm getting my bed back and she can have her own bed her dad can sleep with her and I'll sleep alone. I just don't wanna sleep on a floor ever again. grrrrrrr. excuse the hormonal rage. 23 weeks pregnant sleeping on the hard floor isn't working well for me.

Our application was approved! We can pay the deposit, sign the lease and pick up the keys sometime Friday! Thank God. All of that hard work and persistence in getting ahold of this company really payed off! It's a nice size duplex that has been well cared for, not far from everything and our neighbors are my husband's coworker and his little family. Yay!!! 😊 I may actually make a mommy friend and be able to stop being such a recluse! Thank you God!!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!!! 🙏

gee asked hubby if were gonna look at the house. and he got all pissy with me. and said we will see. I really really really think. that he doesn t wanna move out of mommy and daddy's house. this is driving me crazy. 😤😖😶

Rant* Not sure how nighttime and morning feedings and changings are going to work... I'm probably the only one who is going to do them because my husband won't wake-up for anything at night and if I try to wake him up for something he's only half awake and doesn't do what I need him to do and then doesn't even remember me waking him up in the morning. If I try to get him to fully wake up in the middle of the night be gets really pissy and grumpy. Also in the mornings it takes him forever to get out of bed and get ready for work in the morning. This morning he set his alarm for 430am and didn't get out of bed till 615am because he was too glued to his phone like usual... and when I try to get him up and moving he's a complete jerk to me. He was supposed to start work at 7am and he works 40 minutes away so that's not happening. I have no idea how he expects to take care of his son in the middle of the night and in the mornings like this and he never changes.

Anyone else have the situation where their SO won't help take care of yalls LO? It's so annoying I have to do everything for him from sun up to sun down with no help from my husband...and don't even get me started about my mother in law trying to tell me how to raise my own youngin...my husband won't even hold Tyson for longer than 20mins but when we was in the hospital he helped with EVERYTHING....what's the difference....fed up ughhhh

I have so much to do in the next 2 1/2 days. I need to clean the bathroom top to bottom so that it looks nice for my guests on saturday, I need to clean the entire living room and kitchen. sweep and mop all the floors. clean the windows. make my mom take the a/c unit out of the window so that it doesn't look so ghetto, and put the window back in. I need to start decorating to get that out of the way. gotta bake and go to the store to get finger foods. I need to do all of the laundry, baby girls included. I don't have the energy for all of this 😧😳

Really getting me down how my OH is letting me do 99% of the house work. Every night and every weekend I cook, clean, do the washing and tidy the house constantly while he sits on his PS4. I don't even watch TV anymore because he controls what goes on it. The only thing I do for myself is go for a bath and go on my phone. What a life 😒

So my husband and I just got home back from our trip to our home town. My mom gave us a high chair and my grandma gave us baby bedding. When we got home he was upstairs and I started putting the high chair together. He took the high chair from me started putting it together. I told him he was doing part of it wrong. He got mad and threw part of the high chair and said he was tired of my ass and can't even put up with me for one day. I went upstairs so I didn't have to listen to it and he said I'm tired of your shit and whiny ass. I can definitely feel the love... Yeah right... 😔

anybody else have an issue with upkeep of the house?? I could seriously spend all day cleaning and by the next morning its a disaster again. I'm a SAHM with a 5yo, 11mo, and 21.6weeks pregnant. my fiancé works fulltime 10hr days anywhere from 40-60 hrs a week. most of what I have to pick up is from him and my 5yo but he ALWAYS complains about the house being a mess if I skip a day because I don't feel good. I dont expect him to come home from a long day at work and deep clean the house by any means but lord have mercy how hard is it to pick up after yourself?!