This may be a long post. So I've caught my boyfriend in numerous lies in the past year. Just the other weekend I seen he messaged some girl asking if she was single. Like why would you ask someone that? You have a little family at home. His excuse was he was drinking and does stupid things. So that makes me not able to trust him when he's drinking. I feel he does things behind my back, a lot of times I'm right. But wants to call me crazy? And clingy? And nosey? Damn right I am! But it's his fault he cannot be trusted. Guess he doesn't understand that. So when I question almost everything he gets pissy. Well maybe if I wouldn't catch you in lies I wouldn't have to question every little thing! This isn't fair to me or our son. I love this dude so freaking much, but it's killing me to stay with him. We've both done stupid things in the past. But this is the present, its time to grow up. We have a little boy and possibly another baby on the way. I did nothing to deserve such bullshit!!
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Omg my husband uses the exact same excuse. "I was drunk". And? If you cant control yourself then you shouldn't be drinking!!! Some mens heads are so far up there own asses!!! When he's drunk he changes our phone plan so he can do video chats with randoms. Then gets mad at me when he gets caught. So I know what you are dealing with. I had to give my husband an ultimatum. He chose no drinking.......we shall see how long it lasts.
Good, just from my experience, but it's so much better than what you're going through. And working for your money and providing fully for your child is hard, but rewarding
Good! Would your mom be able to watch him for some time if you got a job?
@krprincipe I live with my mom. I also have WIC
I would apply for jobs and possibly wic, by yourself. Do you have family in the area?
@krprincipe I'm a stay at home mom, I relied on him to work. Idk what I'm gonna do.
It is, that's why I just stopped talking to him. He'll text eventually and I give short texts cause I don't want to talk to him, but he's still the father of my kid
Honestly if he's doing all that stuff, he's cheating. I'm sorry, but I went through the same with my ex. He used to say I was clingy and crazy and he was cheating the whole time. I feel so much better that my son and I don't see him on a regular basis
@acesmomma I went through a relationship like that with my ex. I was so in love but ended up with anxiety, so bad I'd get so sick to my stomach I couldn't eat. I lost a lot of weight unintentionally from that. You can try and try, but in the end do what's best for you and your son. It's never easy to go through these things especially when you have a kid together. If you need to vent or anything I'm here for you. Just remember, you do the best you can and nothing is your fault.
@bluepenguin Oh I know. It drives me nuts. I end up sick to my stomach all freaking day.
If it turning out like that, it's either best to get him to man up, or step away, or try couples counseling , because it's going to be so much stress on you worrying about him and his lies.
@snp6687 I'm sorry, why do us girls get put through so much crap?! I hope everything works out for you ☺