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So hubby had a tattoo that he got years ago and I always hated it and wanted him to get it covered up because it was…

So hubby had a tattoo that he got years ago and I always hated it and wanted him to get it covered up because it was inappropriate and offensive and I felt that as parents it just wasn't right for him to have it. He didn't want to cover it up, but he did. And I never let him forget how thankful and grateful I am that he did something like that for me. So tonight somehow we got on the subject of his cover up and he tried to say him doing that is "way more than you've ever done for me" and then said "that's why I love you more. Because you couldn't just let me have it and deal with me having it and realize it didn't affect you. So I did it because you wanted me to change things about me." And it just made me feel so bad. Like why would he go as far to say that that means he did way more for me than I've ever done for him? He knows I felt bad about wanting him to cover it, but I hated it and I did not want me and our daughter to have to see that for years to come. Am I wrong?? I need advice :(

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dbarton041

danielle@barton

I have 9 tattoos and my husband hates them. He has asked me to remove them for years. I'm not going to do it. It's my body and they all are special to me in one way or another. He shouldn't hold it against you though. And you did carry his child so there's something huge that you've done for you both ☺️

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morganmommy79

Marilu

I don't think covering up an offensive tattoo is changing things about him. It's ink not his identity. Some may argue that but if he was going to do it for you he shouldn't later complain about it. We do things for love and respect but when they make a big deal about it, it makes things fell less special. And you had his baby. He'll never top that. Ever. 😊

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babyking1

Carla

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@dbarton041, I like all his other ones I just really hated that one. And when people saw it they definitely thought something about it. It was pretty offensive. I told him he had a choice I didn't force him to do it and he chose to do it. So why make me feel bad about it later? He brings it up every now and then and it makes me feel bad.@morganmommy79, it doesn't change him at all. He still thinks and acts exactly the same. And exactly. Like I get it you're still unhappy about having to do it but how long are you going to hold it over my head??

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morganmommy79

Marilu

@babyking1, how would he feel if you got a tattoo that offended him?

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babyking1

Carla

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@morganmommy79, I've said that before. And he said he wouldn't care at all. And that it wouldn't affect him. But whatever. I'm not gonna have my daughter have a father with an offensive inappropriate tattoo.

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morganmommy79

Marilu

@babyking1, that's what they say 🙄

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