Feeling super aggravated that my mom and I are the only ones who work in the house. My grandma gets social security and…

Ask him to help support his child court won't look down at you for that

@mommysbabies, I just feel like if I keep asking him for help, that when we go to court because he wants 50/50, that will help his case..

He should help pay for baby he helped make baby ask him to even give you like 25 a week to help with diapers and wipes and usually things on in moms favor

@mommysbabies, I know that but she's not born yet.. the few times he helped was to help with food and getting needed things for her...

Ahh got ya sorry I didn't see that you were still pregnant they may continue case till she is here

@mommysbabies, we haven't started it yet. I'm filling out the divorce paperwork but it's hard doing it since I'm still pregnant and don't know how to go about visitation and stuff

Usually they will revisit that once baby is here my dad got every other weekend with me and both parties had to notify each other when I was being taken out of the state and my mom had 96% custody and dad got 4% but my mom had started abuse in their divorce papers so there was also a restraining order for a little while I don't know the reason for your divorce hers was also done in Orange County court systems I believe or la County not completely sure

@mommysbabies, differences. Also anger issues, drinking issues.. got arrested for driving someone's vehicle without permission and no license..

Yeah if you have all that and can show that to court custody will go in your favor my sil wasn't working and her sons father was but she still got majority of the custody of my nephew and he is supposed to pay like 400 a month but is a loser and doesn't pay child support and doesn't contact his kids hardly ever

@mommysbabies, he's in the army, so it's on his record. He also plans on leaving to Colorado next august.

Yeah than most likely he will not get 50/50 if he is leaving

@mommysbabies, so I know he will be obligated to help but he has no way to take care of her when she does get here so I don't know.. my constant battle..

I'm sorry can you get food stamps or cash assistance he may have to pay spousal support but i dont know how that works

@mommysbabies, I'm married and until I'm divorced, I can't.. it's a lot

Yeah I knew that I know my dad was told not to cut my stepmom off till they were divorced so she could still use his bank account and everything

@mommysbabies, I don't have any of that. I just ask him for help and he usually sends me money after he complains about it.

@caityyy_lynnn, I'm sorry yeah lawyer told him it would hurt his case to cut her off since he is the sole provider

@mommysbabies, we didn't even live together. So he wasn't the sole provider. I make the same if not more than him pay wise.