Really wish i could connect to my baby.. makes this pregnancy feel unreal.. makes me feel like an a**whole...
Aww i wish i could feel mine already lol but i agree with the other ladies i think it'll come with time. My mom felt like she could never love another child like she loved my sister(1st born) but once she held me she fell in love lol so she loves us both the same❤
I didn't see it happening either really. I dont have any other kids but ive founds mothers always seem to have more room in their heart for all their kids. Some women dont connect with their kids until theyre born or even til theyre a few months old. Dont panic and dont feel like a bad mom/person. Youve got this. Itll come.
Maybe when you see your baby things will change.
@nickee i just dont see it happening. Yah know? Like i habe two littles already i have no idea how im gonna do this
@autumnsmomma125 i do feel movment thou...
This might sound terrible but it took me around 15 weeks to even start acknowledging my pregnancy. She was very much unplanned and i was stressing out about everything i didnt make any real connection with her until i had my 20 week ultrasound and i saw her heart beat and i could see her moving and flexing her little hands. The connection will come dont try to force it
I think once you start feeling baby move you will connect more❤
Her movements are starting to make me feel nauseous 😔
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
Today makes 18 weeks pregnant. Around what time did you feel your baby kick for the first time. And what does it feel like ( first pregnancy over here ) lol
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
It really makes me feel sad seeing a mom smoking or drinking alcohol while pregnant...
I know exactly how you feel!!! I am 36 weeks pregnant with a little girl, I currently have 2 boys ages 6 and 11. With both of htem I was so excited I couldn't wait, I couldn't stop shopping and getting everything ready and this time I feel like I am just to busy to even think about baby :( it makes me feel horrible! My last day of work is in two weeks so I am hoping the two weeks I have off before she comes I am able to let it sink in. I can feel her move I know I am pregnant but I just still can't even imagine another baby or even going into labor in the next couple weeks ugh