@adamsgurl im sorry you had to go through all that. I am lucky to have a good husband/father around but the last two days he has been in the hospital and the struggle is real lmao. Im so used to having his help that these past two days have been hell. I honestly really really do applaud you as a single mother and for anyone else for that matter. Cuz i couldnt do it. Between the sleepless nights and the teething amd whining and early mornings, it sucks when my husband isn't here to help. I am grateful that i have someone. But single mothers legit hands down are the real wonder women! 🙌💪

@readingsbyv :-)

I found it easier to be single than to be with my baby daddies.. My daughters dad used to argue about every damned thing i did... Everything i baught... I told him to stfu.. Its not like it was his money being spent.. If i wanted pampers i was getting them. If i wanted gap clothes only i baught them... He said it was all about target diapers and k mart clothes.. Lol.. He baught her like the cheapest outfit he could find once.. . it fell apart in the washer.. Lol.. I pick the daycare. I pick the clothes... I decide everything.. No more argueing.. Well from him as i havnt talked to his useless ass since she was 1.. Shes 10 now. Lol.. My sons whatever he is knew better than to argue with me.. Havnt seen him since he was almost 2...but my son is better off for it....

Sure the help when they was svreaming at night and i had to work a 14 hour shift the next day would have been nice but even that dosnt last forever... :).. My kids are 10 and 4...