Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
my mom died this morning. She lived with me. this morning she woke up and went to the bathroom. i was on zoom and i heard a bang. she died in the bathroom. i wasn’t able to open the door or help her. she’s had health issues but this was unexpected. my kids were at home, i had someone come get them. i had to stay in the house with her body until the funeral home came to get her. idk how to tell my kids. they loved her sooooo much. i don’t know how to be at home. i’m just so lost. she was all i had. my dad died when i was 12. idk i just wanted to vent.
So my water just broke and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do and I'm home alone
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
tamaron stephens·
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@americanhoney303
Awesome thank you I would for sure be doing that.
4the❤of coffee☕·
@tamrynstephens research Concerta. It was the best option for us. It's a slow release.
tamaron stephens·
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@americanhoney303
Quavent or how ever you spell it and clonidine
4the❤of coffee☕·
Which meds was she on? We have my little man on Concerta. When he first started taking it, he lost his appetite, but he still ate here and there. The doc said that was normal. About a month in, he had his big appetite back.
tamaron stephens·
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@americanhoney303
Yeah my daughter and your step son sound alike, they had her on mess but she wouldn't eat and wasn't eating so we took her off of it I am thinking about putting her back on them. She wasn't getting in as much trouble as she is now when she was on them but like I said she wasn't eating. I'd what to do
4the❤of coffee☕·
Well she is probably acting out as she was just released from state custody. That really messes with kids. My stepson went through that. He was a handful and a half when we got custody of him from his mother's actions that lead him to be almost awarded to the state of Arizona. We had him evaluated for ADHD and he has it. He also has ODD. He is on medication now and it's been a 180 for his attitude. He's a striving young man, who loves to read, math is his thing and he wants to learn how to make video games. It's a adjustment period for sure. You need to have patience. Taking things away did absolutely nothing for his behavior, nor did just about any other kind of punishment. So it's a personal thing. Kids are all different in how they handle things. ADD is a hard thing to understand and deal with. Even for grown adults.
tamaron stephens·
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@hilarysheraye
I've done the swat on the button she doesn't seem like she cares I also have done the stay in your room all day and made her not do things the other kids were doing. They only get 30 mins of electronics a day of what ever it may be so I might just try that one ty for the advice I Will try taking away the electronics
💕RayyeRayye💕·
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@tamrynstephens take her things away and dont let her watch tv. A swat or two might work but it just depends on how you do dicipline.
tamaron stephens·
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@hilarysheraye
Lol k ty I just don't know what to do, how do I make her listen I'll get to her level and look her in the eye when I talk to her still nothing I even ask her what I said right after I said it and she always says I forgot
💕RayyeRayye💕·
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She is probably still adjusting being back home. Dont beat yourself up though cause kids can be a little mean sometimes. My neice has a mouth on her and is very blunt with her words lol