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Okay ladies I need honest opinions! Small lol jk BIG rant so get ready for a lot of reading....where to begin...okay so…

Okay ladies I need honest opinions! Small lol jk BIG rant so get ready for a lot of reading....where to begin...okay so my daughter Aria is 15 months old and she's known my gf Jessica since birth. There was a point in time where Jessica didn't see Ari for a few months ( approx. 3 1/2) Ever since me and jess got back together Aria is very emotional whenever my gf comes around.

She sometimes doesn't want to go to her, she will cry when jess tries to pick her up, she will throw tantrums or get an attitude or have a melt down when jess tries to discipline her or keep her from getting into things. When I leave the room or my mom Aria cries, when my gf leaves she doesn't cry....she will wave happily though. She been acting like this for MONTHS now. During bath time she cries during her getting her hair done, but with me and my mom she doesn't cry.

I can see it's hurting my gfs feelings because she's trying to make up for that time they lost when we broke up and she wasn't around. She wants to be a mother/have that motherly role in her life....But it's been months and my daughter continues to push away. Do you think she acts like this because she left or.....Will it take her getting older for the behavior to change or am I missing something? Please give advice. ❤️

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brianna_

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@mommaofgirls, oh wow okay that def encouraged me thank you! I needed it because I feel really bad. And I will tell her! ☺️

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brianna_

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@beebaby, okay thank you!! ❤️❤️

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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I would just encourage there relationship. She may just be going through a phase but at this point she can't take back what has happened. Just gotta keep doing things together. I would let her do more with the new baby so she can see it's alright to be around her

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brianna_

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@mommaofgirls, how much you suppose?

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