How do you discipline an 11 month old? Shes been so bad lately and if you tell her no she doesn't listen.
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I was trying to find the article I read that said it takes over 100 times of repetition to teach a child under 1. Repetition and ci consistency. Redirect. Get her mind on something else. She has two things your older daughter doesnt have: an older sister to observe and an older sister to distract mom.
It’s best not to use the word “no” for a child that age unless they’re in danger. Try to redirect behavior instead. They’re not intentionally being bad, just learning cause and effect. They honestly have no clue that they’re supposed to listen to you. Their main goal is to have fun and play.
I'll move her away from what shes not suppose to be touching and she keeps going right back to it
@ambermarieeee, That sounds like normal behavior for that age. I know it’s frustrating but try to remember that she’s not intentionally trying to be bad. No need to discipline, just remain consistent. In a few months maybe. But not at 11 months where she can barely communicate.
I'm not saying discipline as in hitting cause I would NEVER hit my kids. I was abused real bad as a child so smacking my kid is the last resort.!! I just didnt know if there was an easier way to get her to stop or not. And as for the comment of "dont have kids close in age" my oldest daughter is not bad was not bad at 11 months, shes 3 now and still listens when I tell her no without hitting her.
What do you feel like she’s doing bad or being bad myb we can help you that way
11 months old is still an infant so.... of course she doesn’t listen. It only gets worse lol
I think that you can't really discipline an 11 month old. They're still too young and don't really understand anything. I don't think an 11 month old can act "bad"
Op- sorry your post got hijacked. It's hard to watch someone who treats their kids so poorly give advice.
I hope you take to heart the good advice here as much was given to you
My daughter would be 11 months old and when I see her doing something wrong like pulling down the hand towels in the kitchen I simply tell her Lily no does she listen not always but I when call her name she listens and response to me ...
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Yet I bet if someone hit her to teach a lesson she’d be charging them with assault...but it’s ok to pop her child one...hmm makes sense eh..assault and abuse is the same you can’t pick and choose which is ok. Who hits a baby. FYI 11 month olds are damn babies.
At 11 months, they’re still so young. They don’t know how to communicate just yet, and sometimes their behavior is their way of communicating. Whether it is to get your attention or just curiosity about the world around them.
My daughter is 18 months. I change the tone of my voice ( no, i dont mean yelling either ) and speak to her that way when i am disciplining her. I explain to her the why she should and shouldnt do things. She now understands if she has done something wrong. I can see from her expression that she knows she’s done something bad sometimes her eyes even get watery 😭 which breaks my heart when i see that. It gets repetitive but i really do not think hitting or scaring your child is a better way of discipline. They eventually will understand and get the grasp of things.
@bodybycheetos no not surprised. I'm blocked now so clearly she didnt think people would remember she hits her kids and starves them
Get down on their level and talk to them if you don’t get down to their level you’re not respecting them and as far as discipline goes she’s not even 1 yet babies don’t have a grasp on what’s okay and what’s not. If she’s doing something she’s not supposed to be doing remove her from what it is and firmly say NO and give her something to play with
YOU Shouldn't have children close in age if YOU have NO Patience or kids at all !
Listen. It has NOTHING to do with having them close in age, thank you! My oldest daughter was not like this so this is new to me! I would tell her no and she would listen. I dont need help.😂😂 and when I asked about discipline I didnt mean smacking my kids. I would never hit my kids after being abused real bad myself.👏
The 1st 3 yrs of life babies are in non conscious(understanding of the world around them.Why would you to Discipline a baby? Try getting help for yourself 1st!
You don't. She's 11 months old. She doesn't know how to listen. You redirect, you show her what to do and what not to do and keep doing it repeatedly (over time not in that moment). She will learn. Eventually.
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There really is no "discipline" for an. 11month old. I pop my son on the hand when I tell him no an he looks at me and does it again but that's all I do! He is 15 months old
@brittandchris11, there are outlet covers and power strip protectors to prevent this from happening.
@brittandchris11, You’re so ignorant if you think @laniejay not hitting and abusing her kids mean they’ll get away with everything. Go take a parenting class, shit take a child development class. Educate yourself. Do better.
That's what I was wondering. I have 11 month old twins and they are still babies and never bad. Just exploring their world. I'm confused about and 11 month old can be bad
@ladyfreyja, like what do you say how dare you cry for a bottle and drool on the tv remotes 😂😂
Redirect her or a time out spot to be alone for a super short amount of time. She's still a baby.
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You don't. She's 11 months old. She doesn't know how to listen. You redirect, you show her what to do and what not to do and keep doing it repeatedly (over time not in that moment). She will learn. Eventually.