I have a friend who is going to deliver soon and she wants to know what was the hardest part about child birth. The…

@dejacw I'm late. I didn't tear. A calm relaxing environment helped. I had a midwife and delivers at home with my first so I pretty much did everything in my own listening to my body. Second one was cs, but I handled contractions same way. Positive thoughts and staying calm

I haven't got to experience the 2nd one yet.. I have 5 more months to go.. but since I know what to expect I'm hoping it'll go smooth

No I didn't tear with my son.

@dejacw, I think it easier when you know what to expect. Also I enjoyed my delivers with my midwife a lot more than with a dr

@serrano_girl @heather_juraskovich90 @cubanese @mathews132 @dinamarie2604 since you ladies have more than one was there something you did the next time to help ease your mind during the process?

It was definitely the contractions for me.. with pushing my daughter slid right out..

Contractions for sure!

@dejacw, it's probly my body's revenge for ridiculously short labors lol

Atleast childbirth only lasts 1-3 days that healing process is hell

Contractions I could handle. Pushing was the most painful thing

@mathews132 oh man I thought it only happens with the first one i did with mine i cant imagine going through that again

@dejacw, yes every time

@djcjej @cubanese @mathews132 @serrano_girl @heather_juraskovich90 did any of you ladies tear after your baby came out?

The contractions.....ok everything with my first cuz it was all new...but after him definitely contractions

It was the pushing for me i had deathly cramps during my periods and the contractions felt the same way

Contractions for me. The birth was fine because I had an epidural.

Contractions for me