I have a friend who is going to deliver soon and she wants to know what was the hardest part about…

Contractions for me

Contractions for me. The birth was fine because I had an epidural.

It was the pushing for me i had deathly cramps during my periods and the contractions felt the same way

The contractions.....ok everything with my first cuz it was all new...but after him definitely contractions

@djcjej @cubanese @mathews132 @serrano_girl @heather_juraskovich90 did any of you ladies tear after your baby came out?

@dejacw, yes every time

@mathews132 oh man I thought it only happens with the first one i did with mine i cant imagine going through that again

Contractions I could handle. Pushing was the most painful thing

Atleast childbirth only lasts 1-3 days that healing process is hell

@dejacw, it's probly my body's revenge for ridiculously short labors lol

Contractions for sure!

It was definitely the contractions for me.. with pushing my daughter slid right out..

@serrano_girl @heather_juraskovich90 @cubanese @mathews132 @dinamarie2604 since you ladies have more than one was there something you did the next time to help ease your mind during the process?

@dejacw, I think it easier when you know what to expect. Also I enjoyed my delivers with my midwife a lot more than with a dr

No I didn't tear with my son.

I haven't got to experience the 2nd one yet.. I have 5 more months to go.. but since I know what to expect I'm hoping it'll go smooth

@dejacw I'm late. I didn't tear. A calm relaxing environment helped. I had a midwife and delivers at home with my first so I pretty much did everything in my own listening to my body. Second one was cs, but I handled contractions same way. Positive thoughts and staying calm