So I recently just turned 30 a couple weeks ago and for some reason I'm still annoyed at the fact that my best friend of about 20 years only said Happy Birthday to me. She made all these gestures and plans to celebrate my 30th but NOTHING happened. I had a get together at the beach and planned It 2-3 weeks in advance with invites and the week off she said she's going camping at the last minute and thought it said it was a different day.. should I continue to ignore her? I feel as if I'm just gonna return the favor when it's her bday next month. Yes Im being petty...
@tammy.vien87, I feel she should be more understanding since she's a mother, and your soon to be one. Just like she can't just drop things to go and hangout.. I'm sure you were understanding when she was pregnant so why is she being such a witch now that your pregnant. It's not all about her.. I'm sure she wouldn't of liked it if you did the same thing to her. Lord if she's mad over a dumb vegas trip, save yourself the heart ache. I can't even imagine you actually went to vega with her and her making dumb comments because you can't drink or your tired to do anything. She should be more understanding, and if she couldn't make it, or didn't want too go..she should of told you. Worry about your pregnancy and your bf/ or husband.. you have more important things to worry about love to worry about her. And she does contact you and you don't want to go. Just tell her you can't make it. Be the bigger person and don't be petty, your not her.. let her get ahold of you once she stop acting like such. Jerk..and then you decided if it's even worth it to continue to be her friend
@lezlie527, I completely agree. She has a 3 year old son and so I thought that she would understand that now I'm pregnant I can't just drop things and go and that things need to be planned out and schedule. I feel as if she's mad that I got pregnant and cancelled our trip to vegas.
Yes, be mad! My best friend ditched me in Halloween last year, last minute after I bought a costume! I'm still pissed. Haven't talked to her since. She finially text me two weeks ago, I didn't respond and Saturday, she text my husband! All casual... Hey what's up... She unfriended me on Fb, missed my wedding. Bitch see ya... Until my hormones make me miss her and I reach out. Lol it is lonely with out your bestie. Be mad, but, remember why they are fiends I the first place! Lol l
My ex best friend did that to me, she called me one day..I answered thinking she butt dialed me. Because she had done that a few times. I answered and she Actually wanted to talk to me.. so she went on to say how glad she was I answered that she wanted to cry because she missed me so much blah blah we made plans to go hiking, well the day came and I texted her to confirm and she said she couldn't she was busy. After she called me to make plans,now I don't even care anymore honestly. Before I had my daughter, she randomly cut me off for no reason..nothing as to why..I went to her house worried because I knew nothing of her. I tried for a whole month to get ahold of her..to make sure she was okay. Never answered the door, not returned a call of text. So I just stopped trying to get ahold of her, eventually she got ahold of me and told me..she needed time for herself to get it together and what not. And I said you could of told me that I would of understood I was your best friend.. we literally spend almost every day together and out of no where she went MIA. I just don't talk to her anymore unless she talks to me..and I don't get my hopes up for anything when it comes to her.. I would say do the same thing,I get you still love her but sometimes they just don't see you as that friend anymore..for whatever reason. Don't stress over someone who's not even worried about you.. makes no sense, she's living her life so why not live yours..with or without her. @tammy.vien87,
@lezlie527, thank you! ☺️