I have never wanted my mil to come visit soo bad, she just got back from Guatemala and loves 4 hours away.. I am so worried I will have nobody to leave the kids with if I go.into labor because everyone has left for vacation... my parents live next door but my mother is in the early/middle stages of Alzheimer's, my dad work during the day and would really like it if it was him that had to watch all 3 kids and if I go into lAbor at night I know I would never here the end of it.