Vaginal labor is so easy I would rather take the contractions any day than to have to have a c section
@mzdesiredheart, it was terrible for me I wish I could do a vaginal birth
@lillys.mommy, omg I couldn’t even imagine being able to feel everything you are so incredibly strong for being able to endure that kinda pain
I think i have a high tolerance to pain. The c section wasnt bad for me at all. Im more scared of vaginal birth than c section. I don't know what my doctor has planned for this delivery
@jadasweet0218,
My first was something nightmares are made of.
The epidural didn’t work and it was an emergency so they did the csection anyway and I felt absolutely everything and almost went into shock.
My second wasn’t as bad but the recovery was terrible the third and 4th weren’t too bad
@jadasweet0218, I didn’t wait actually. I was already in the hospital at 32 weeks pregnant because i was already 2 centimeters open. So I was at the hospital already a few days prior for observation. Baby’s heart rate kept dropping so at 33 weeks and 4 days it was time for me to give birth. My water was broken at the hospital and everything. Next thing my babygirl was born 4 lbs 3 ounces and had to be in the NICU for 3 weeks 😩 but now she’s 9 months and is as healthy as can be. Between c section and vaginal birth they both have their perks but it’s all about our bodies and what it decides. We are all strong mamas whether if it’s c section or vaginal birth. And I applaud all of us!!
@mamaofgirls, it definitely was I hated everything about it and I’m about to have to go through it again
@mamaofgirls, I had vaginal with my first and c section with my second and it was the worst experience of my life
@mhbb3, that’s how it turned out with my second
@itty_bitty, well damn! I just turned 37w and I feel like she’s going to fall out when I walk. 😂😂😂 40w?!! 😖😖😖
@itty_bitty, oh no. You’re brave! I wish you good luck! 😅
@jadasweet0218
Vaginal. It ended in an emergency c section
Wasn't easy for me and I'm terrified of going through that again.
@cams, omg I’m sorry you went through all that
@jadasweet0218, oh yea. I’ve mentioned it on here before but he wasn’t making progress so they tried a vacuum. It broke off and sprayed blood all over my OB’s face and made a large laceration on my baby’s head. They tried a different vacuum, cut me, I tore anyway and he was still stuck. They finally got him out and he almost went to the NICU because he was stuck so long and was having trouble breathing. I was black and blue down there with plenty of stitches. Something funky happened with my tailbone also so I had trouble sitting for months. AND I needed a blood transfusion before leaving the hospital. It was horrific. I literally thought i was dying with the amount of blood that was pouring out of me. Anyway...😅 I like c sections better now. At least it’s in a controlled environment. 🙊
@bayona44, see you waited I didn’t wait long enough so I don’t think I’m gonna be able to push
@cams, oh man I’ve never heard of anything like that
@jadasweet0218, yes I did. With my first I had a c section.
@bayona44, you pushed with your second baby?
I’d pick a scheduled section any day over a vaginal birth. My first was a traumatic vaginal delivery and it took me 3 months to even sit straight up. I was moving around fine after a few weeks after section.
Yes I can totally agree. I swore to my husband that I was going to push. I’m like oh no I refuseeeee to get a c section this time around lol I pushed my life away lolll
@jessijane84, I know I’m just really nervous and scared about it
@bayona44, mines wasn’t fast but it was better than the c section
@jadasweet0218, well do your research before you settle on a provider. Keep in mind at the end of the day it's mama and baby's health that's most important 💕
Omg me too. I experienced both. Recovery with c section for me was horrible. Vaginal was very fast. So I’m grateful I got to experience both.
@jessijane84, I haven’t even set up a doctors appointment yet and I’m not sure if they’re gonna let me push considering my daughter will only be 1 year and 5 months when I have this baby it’s so hard
@jadasweet0218, have you checked around with other facilities? Some will offer VBAC, not my dr tho, I have to have scheduled cesarean around 37wks due to chronic hypertension. They did however tell me that some place may allow me to try for a vaginal delivery..
@jessijane84, you are definitely right I just wish I didn’t have to go through c section again I want to push so bad 😔
@jadasweet0218, the things we do for our baby's 💕 all that pain is a 2nd thought once we get them in our arms!
@kambam, it’s extremely hard I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemies
@jessijane84, I was in labor with my second for about 2 days
@abbyrose, I did as well and it was the worst experience of my life @duckduckgoose, I got to see her while there we sewing me back up but it wasn’t for long and for my I kept going in and out of consciousness I lost a lot of blood I was extremely cold I hated the feeling as well and the healing process was even worse I breastfed and taking the pills they gave me it started to break my baby out so I had to stop taking them and just endure the pain it was the worst experience of my life
I can't imagine csection 🙁 the strongest ladies go thru that.
With my first I was in labor for almost 4 days which resulted in an emergency cesarean. The recovery was the worst pain I've ever felt in my life
@jadasweet0218, it’s the c section recovery. I had a long one to I pushed for 5 hours vacuum failed 2 times they got it on the third epidural failed. Awful! C section I was numb but I felt like it wasn’t real to me. I hated the feeling. I didn’t even get to feel I had him. (You should know what I mean) they took him away so they can sew me up I didn’t even get to see him until I was out of surgery. Then the pain omg. That was the worst. I swore to myself that if I ever have a baby again I will only go to a doc to do VBAC
@abbyrose, no birthing experience is easy but c section is much harder than you could ever imagine
@duckduckgoose, with my first I had a extremely long vaginal birth and it wasn’t easy at all and with my second I had to have a c section and as I said I would definitely take the long horrible vaginal birth over a c section any day
I had a awful vaginal.. and I had a c section I would take the awful vaginal over a c section again any day...
@abbyrose, I’m not speaking for everyone Im speaking for myself
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@jadasweet0218, I didn’t wait actually. I was already in the hospital at 32 weeks pregnant because i was already 2 centimeters open. So I was at the hospital already a few days prior for observation. Baby’s heart rate kept dropping so at 33 weeks and 4 days it was time for me to give birth. My water was broken at the hospital and everything. Next thing my babygirl was born 4 lbs 3 ounces and had to be in the NICU for 3 weeks 😩 but now she’s 9 months and is as healthy as can be. Between c section and vaginal birth they both have their perks but it’s all about our bodies and what it decides. We are all strong mamas whether if it’s c section or vaginal birth. And I applaud all of us!!