Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to ride my sons bike but him hes 3 and he has a auntie who is the same age as him but I dont want her to ride it either...
Okay so idk if it's the same for every state or whatever ( I live in West Virginia ) but I need some advice :/... So my son is due in about a month, and the father is between two different guys ( I didn't cheat long story :/ ) One of the possible fathers lives in North Carolina two states away from me, and the other possible father lives like 20 minutes away from me, but I told him and he said he doesn't want to talk about it, then blocked me. Once I have the baby, and they ask me who the father is, how am I supposed to get ahold of the possible father that blocked me and even have him sign his rights up or even let him know? And what do I tell the hospital when they ask?... Do I just tell them a name and they will find him? Or what... Cause if I don't tell them who the father is then I will loose all medical coverage. Also if the other possible father wants rights, does that mean he can take me son out of state away from me?... I'm so scared either way that something bad is going to happen... I don't want my son taken two states away with out me... And I don't want the other possible father around cause he use to abuse me and he smokes weed and I don't want that around my son. 😢😢😢
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
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I felt the same way and did exactly what you're wanting to do and I regret it to this day. It doesn't change a man . A man will change if it's in his own will.
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Good luck mama 💜
rebecca·
Мама троих детей
I say fuk him n keep your beautiful baby to yourself he doesn't deserve that n it's better not to set ur baby up for emotional drama with a man whose in and out
Claudia Flores ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (21 нед.)
I think it shows how mature you are to want to include him... it's a great gesture on your part, if he wants to be there that's great , if not, unfortunately you'll have an insight on how he'll be towards your son...