I really need to go on a diet and start working out...lately ive been feeling really insecure because my daughters father is always around these skinny pretty girls..we are no longer together but i just hate feeling like i was never good enough for him..majority of my weight gain came from getting pregnant and then having her i became so lazy and eat for comfort..its such a problem i know. Ive been wanting to do this for a while..not for him at all but maybe the anger towards him will help motivate me to finally get my body back..to get MY CONTROL BACK!!!