I really need to hear advice, please don't judge my questioning thoughts I'm already stressed out... so I had no plan on getting pregnant. I even did take plan b. I'm 19 years old and still live at home. I currently am in a lot of financial situations with student loans and car payments and such. I did go to school to be an emt just have to pass the state exam and I have a full time job lined up. The "baby's dad" feels I should "get rid of the baby". He also lives an hour and a half away from me. I am not one who ever even thought about getting an abortion unless something seriously medical was at stake. He did say if I'd choose to keep the baby that he would do everything he can to be there cause he isn't going to let me raise a child myself. I'm just really stressed out and I am 5 weeks pregnant btw.... any advice or words of wisdom please share. I'm an emotional wreck..
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Things get better hun. Sometimes you think you won't make it but it always works out. You are pregnant for a reason. The baby is in your life bc they belong to you.
Keep the baby. You'll be amazed at how much love you have for it. You'll wonder how you ever created something so beautiful. You are only 5 weeks so finish your exam and get your full time job. You'll be glad you did. I'm 38 and wish I would've done things differently. I got pregnant at 22 which is still young and even tho I was married I didn't have a career plan or anything. I wish I would've finished college then instead of when I was in my 30's. set your career up before the baby is born and you'll be set. Sometimes having a baby is hard work but it's never as hard as it joyful. And your man said he'd help. I think if you finish your exam and get your job your parents will see how responsible you really are and maybe take it a little easier. I don't know their type but it may help. Abortion is something you can't take back or get out of your head.i think you'll regret it later on. But can't change it then. And you have all of us here to answer any questions and help u along the way. Much love ❤️
I agree with getting your exam done and out. If abortion is not what you want don't get it I'm sure it will take a big toll on you. And as for the parents knowing I was pregnant at 17 still at home and In hs and was afraid to tell them but you know ones I told them they were so supportive I say wait till after first trimester to tell anyone if you do decide to keep baby.
Ok stop and think for a minute you took the plan b and still ended up being pregnant I know it only has a small percentage of not working but god is the reason your pregnant. Definitely get your exam taken and get your job you'll be able to work till you have the baby and you'll have money and stuff for baby by then. It's hard it's not easy by any means but it's a part of you. By the time you find out your pregnant it has a heartbeat and to me that's a living child. I know everyone looks at it different but imo abortion is going to mess with your head there is always adoption my sil adopted her little boy out to a wonderful family but it is just as hard as abortion but knowing you have given life to a family who can't ever make their own is amazing. Talk with your family tell them your plans with your career and then talk to them about your plan with your child. It'll become easy and it'll become your new kind of normal. Do what is best for you.