Yes he has yo want to change... my step dad was an alcoholic they were married 19yrs .... it doesnt get better... try @sarenagodoy intervention idea... at least you did your part in trying to make it work.

How old is he.. How longs he been drinking. Im so sorry girl but no you dont want to live the rest of your life like that. Unless he wants to change he wont change. My fathers an alcoholic for well over 30 years now. Hes always saying he will stop but never does. Its disappointing seeing how bitter weak and basically killing himself from inside out. I do hope your husband finds the willpower to make the change for his own health and for a better life...try looking up all the side affect and what can happen to your body from drinking..find all the information you can print it off and give it to your husband. Tell him you are really worried about him and his health and cant continue to go down this road with him. His reaction will be your answer!

However, for your dilemma, try doing an intervention with him and ask only the people he is closet to to come. That could be one step to recovery. I'm sorry for your pain and I hope everything gets better

That's a really good question. My mom is going through the same thing with my step dad, he's not an alcoholic, he has a hard time dealing and concealing his anger and takes it out on my little brothers.