All throughout my pregnancy, my husband only went to like 3 appointments, never really wanted to touch my belly unless I made him, never talked to her or anything. He would always say, I'm just ready for her to be here. Well fast forward to her being here for a week already and he hardly wants anything to do with her. He's only held her a couple of times, fed her twice, never even thought about changing a diaper. If she's awake, he'll tell me I have something to tend to. I'm having to do everything. I hardly sleep at night because I'm the one getting up with her because he works, but if I try to take a nap during the day, he says I don't need to sleep all the time but yet he can nap whenever he wants to. Ever since she's been born, he's hardly had anything to do with me, and that was only to ask for head. I've found other females on his Snapchat that he's cheated on me with before and it's killing my self esteem. Plus I'm so depressed with how my life is going that I'm crying at the drop off a hat. Sorry for the long post, I just had to vent to someone since I have no friends. I'm always stuck at his parents house pretty much by myself with only my baby girl to talk to but that's okay cause she's all I'll ever need in life.
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Yeah my bf was the same way for the first couple weeks of her life but now that she is growing he is always playing with her and talking to her... he even told me he was scared he might break her cause she was so small.... hopefully it will get better mamma... it sucks going through it tho.
My bf was the same til our son got bigger and didn't seem so fragile
Talk to him and express how you feel. Not fair for you to do it alone.
So sorry you have to go through that. 😞 You have an amazing baby that needs you to be strong. You are amazing so please don't let anything make you think less.
The other thing is making him understand how y'all both made the beautiful baby girl so it's not solely ones responsibility
He needs to step up as being daddy. He needs sense knocked into. That's unfair to you, and for him to tell you what to do is very unlike a husband!! I tell his ass off . And if he doesn't like what I say, the door is right there.
I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy....
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My bf was the same way until I snapped. Now he changes some diapers and holds her