All throughout my pregnancy, my husband only went to like 3 appointments, never really wanted to touch my belly unless I made him, never talked to her or anything. He would always say, I'm just ready for her to be here. Well fast forward to her being here for a week already and he hardly wants anything to do with her. He's only held her a couple of times, fed her twice, never even thought about changing a diaper. If she's awake, he'll tell me I have something to tend to. I'm having to do everything. I hardly sleep at night because I'm the one getting up with her because he works, but if I try to take a nap during the day, he says I don't need to sleep all the time but yet he can nap whenever he wants to. Ever since she's been born, he's hardly had anything to do with me, and that was only to ask for head. I've found other females on his Snapchat that he's cheated on me with before and it's killing my self esteem. Plus I'm so depressed with how my life is going that I'm crying at the drop off a hat. Sorry for the long post, I just had to vent to someone since I have no friends. I'm always stuck at his parents house pretty much by myself with only my baby girl to talk to but that's okay cause she's all I'll ever need in life.
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Yeah my bf was the same way for the first couple weeks of her life but now that she is growing he is always playing with her and talking to her... he even told me he was scared he might break her cause she was so small.... hopefully it will get better mamma... it sucks going through it tho.
My bf was the same til our son got bigger and didn't seem so fragile
Talk to him and express how you feel. Not fair for you to do it alone.
So sorry you have to go through that. 😞 You have an amazing baby that needs you to be strong. You are amazing so please don't let anything make you think less.
The other thing is making him understand how y'all both made the beautiful baby girl so it's not solely ones responsibility
He needs to step up as being daddy. He needs sense knocked into. That's unfair to you, and for him to tell you what to do is very unlike a husband!! I tell his ass off . And if he doesn't like what I say, the door is right there.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
My bf was the same way until I snapped. Now he changes some diapers and holds her