So, please tell me I'm not the only one. I have a hard time getting things all neat and tidy like some people. I'm just sorta cluttery, it's hard when your SO thinks the whole house is your job expect he helps with the trash and laundry, laundry sometimes. But, he works a lot of hours I understand that but a little help would be nice. Please tell me, I'm not the only one. I have gave 12 bags of my clothes away already I just need help organzing and I have all the weight on me!
No u aren't the only one I cleaned yesterday an it's already getting out of order my guy likes to shit swearing its worth cash but he doesnt take it nowhere it jus sits in the closet i had to sweep the damn basement i cussed everyone out yesterday too they were like wtf is wrong with her he was at the barber an was ah scared to bring me food he said y should i bring u food so u can hit me😂 i said boy jus bring my shhh im starving since ive been cleaning all day an i said you sleep eat shit an fuck an buss nuts here but you cant clean shit wont wipe a toilet clean a dish sweep a floor or nothin grrr i was soo pist an still is because he still aint gone do shit
I need to get organizer stuff to put things away. But, it's so hard doing it when I have a baby and two dogs.
True, it doesn't matter what I say sometimes he has a big ego. No, matter how much I fuss he still doesn't wanna help me. And, it's a lot of work. I still have the guest bedroom filled with clothes that I need to clean but no one offers. Idk, I just wish it was better. And, I'm trying not to complain that much I just want someone to listen. And, their is always more of a mess and stuff everywhere since he dont pick up after himself.
I just give away everything we haven't used in several months. I tell my husband if he wants to keep it he has to help. If he doesn't help he doesn't get to keep it.
My thoughts are "you may pay the bill with money, but this is my house as long as I'm the one taking care of it." 😂😂
I'm the same way. I do better if I make a list of small, easy to accomplish steps of organizing and cleaning. It feels good to cross off the little things plus you don't feel defeated trying to do a whole project when you have a small child and other things to take care of as well
If everyone did a part in the cleaning process things wouldn't be so hard on us but the guys seem to think we are their moma plus their wife an maid an the kids idk wat they think