Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I need some help/knowledge on child support and taxes?! Her father pays child support monthly.. My daughter lives with me, I haven't filed my taxes yet. I'm planning on doing it this weekend. My ex just texted me and said - "Hey my dad is doing my taxes for me and he needs ur social security number n your full name, cause I need to claim back some of the taxes from the child support. And he said u can still claim Mia it won't affect it he already asked the tax people. So if u can send it over that be great thanks." However, when I googled it...I found out child support is outside of taxes. I FEEL like he's lying to me to try to get my social so he can claim our daughter. Anyone know?!
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Opinions! I’m pregnant with my ex boyfriends third child it is our second together. Our daughter is 3, we split up a week before I found out I was pregnant. He doesn’t want to fix things. And I’ve been trying to sorta ask him to come home but found out some news that completely broke my heart. I sorta started to talk to someone that doesn’t live in my state but works around my area sometimes.. we spent some time together while he was here and he will be back in 3 weeks.. am I doing something wrong I feel weird I’m pregnant...
Brenda.·
What do you think will solve the problem?
DhamiPhoenix·
I'm sorry hun! That sounds so frustrating. There are emergency services that may be able to help you cover rent and utilities this month. You will need his pay stubs. We had issues with finances for a while because I'm a squirrel and he is a spender. Sit down and write down the budget and pull out rent right when you get each check so you are sure it is tucked away and not so easy to spend.
They shouldn't come after him with a court date if he misses one payment of child support unless he is super far behind and even then you will have a few weeks to catch up that payment. They rarely put a dad in jail for a missed payment even when far behind.
Focus on rent and utilities and ask your community for support like churches and places like that. They are good for a one time deal.
I hope things work out for you!
Slow down for your body hun. I was cleaning like crazy too right after my little one and burned myself out. It's not worth the clean house for a few hrs. Relaxing and loving your baby is the most important thing right now. The house is loyal enough to keep the mess waiting until you are ready to clean it 😉
I had to edit because autocorrect thinks it knows what I want to say better than I do lol
lindseebee·
I've been trying to budget our money so it lasts all month, literally writing it down helped me to see how much spending money we have after I pay bills. I take care of the finances, even though it's my husbands money he doesn't leave the house much due to his ptsd. I've had to start acting more responsibly and decided to do a budget since we struggled for a few months and I know it was partly my fault. Being overdrawn really sucks.