My son barely wants to eat any real food. He's still stuck on drinking milk. But the problem is, It's cow's milk so it doesn't keep him full and he obviously can't get too much nutrition from it so it's really frustrating to me when I try to feed him and he spits it out, hits it out of my hand or cries to the top of his lungs. Plus I'm just not having a good day. So I asked my mama could she watch him for like 30 mins(with literal tears in my eyes) and she takes a deep breath like I just ask her all the time and the first thing that comes out of her mouth is " y'all people have problems in this house" ... She's obviously a mother herself so i know she's had days like this. I just hate how people think we as mother's are not allowed to get frustrated about our babies crying to the top of their lungs or hitting food out of our hands or pretty much anything. We're suppose to be some emotionless robot that never gets tired and never needs a break? Other mothers are so judgmental and so stuck on painting the perfect picture of motherhood that nobody wants to be honest and admit that sometimes you just want to runaway.. That doesn't mean you love your child any less. It just means you're human.
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Yeah, you're not alone at all. Cause if Mama is stressed the baby/kid definitely picks up on it@adorabilia
I feel you. When you said moms aren't robots I'm just like YES FINALLY! I'm not a saint, I get tired and want to do things for myself. That doesn't make me less of a mom. But everyone thinks you can just unconditionally work for your child 24/7. Nope. Remember to take care of yourself too, mama.
That's one thing they want do is admit that it hard cause they think it's so easy!!! Lol my husband watched our son I offered to take him but he said he would watch him while I took my grandmother to the doctor my son cried the whole entire time he kept texting me asking were I was and when I got home he was like bout eff'n time geesh I was bout to loose it lol but it's easy though!!!!
I feel every single thing you just said, girl. From the baby not wanting to eat anything but junk to the father. Lol my child's father swears up and down he could handle him by himself but took like 10-15 minutes just to give him a WIPE OFF the other night smh. And still won't admit that what I do everyday isn't as easy as it looks@iviesha
I know the feeling you feels it sucks cause my son want eat anything either all he wants is junk n juice! when I offer him food he turns it down all he time I'm like they're going to think I'm starving my son!I just stop forcing him to have it if he eats it he does if not then that's on him but his doctor told me he was going to be that way till he turns six!!!and I'm like are you serious and it is hard taken care of a child I can never get a break my husband can't deal with my son by himself cause he cries for me all the time and he doesn't have patience for that you have every right to feel the way you feel!!! I'd pay just for a day to see a man take care of there kids by themselves asking no questions just so they can see how we as women feel!!!!!!!
Omg that's a lot. God bless you. And yes I just want to strangle my boyfriend when he tries to down play what I do day in and day out@embracemthrhd2
Yeah it's really annoying that people judge mothers so harshly. I'm not single but I would consider myself a single mom anyway because my son lives with me and his father lives with his family so yup lol @kambam
Amen to that! I hate when my bf says why are you so tiered? Umm how bout i work full time and come straight home to a baby and walk to pick up 3 kids from school, breastfeed every couple hours while helping other kids with homework, cleaning cooking, ironing, laundry, my hair, 6yr old hair, i even cut the boys hair! Yes i have the right to get tiered. No being a good mom is not easy.
Im sorry. Totally know the feeling 😕 as a single mom i cant run but when I want a break everyone stares at me like im the devil 😂
Exactly@vella89