Ugh I schedule my csection tomorrow and I really want to schedule it for June 8th because it's my grandmas birthday but…

June 9th is my birthday 😊

That's petty. Seems to me like you need to get on your own 2 feet then. Tell your bf to get 2 jobs so yall can move. I couldn't deal with that

@laciemarie, @arivera64, I guess I just feel like I have to listen to her because I live in their house and she says she won't watch Emma when I try to fight her on things sometimes and that's definitely a day we need her to have Emma

@laciemarie thanks. I hate to see women especially young moms feel so trapped and bullied like they don't have a say in anything for themselves

🤗🤗🤗👐👐👏👏👏👏👏 well said. @arivera64 and you do what YOU want to do! Id love if i had the oppertunity to make,my childs birthday on my grandmas. I wouldnt let it go. Youll never have that oppertuinity again!

So what. Let her throw a fit. I'm not trying to be rude but people will only run you over if you allow them to. Sounds like you let her step on your toes way too often. Your body. Your birth. Your business. Not hers or anyone else's. Did you know that even if you're married you can keep your husband out of the delivery room? It's patient privacy. She needs to have several seats and you gotta put your foot down and be the one to give her the seats.

@arivera64, that's what I said!! Like he'll be able to come up when he gets home, he can't be there during the csection anyway and I might not even want people there right away since I didn't get that experience with my first. I might want to be alone with my fiancé for awhile then have my daughter come then other visitors, but she's been throwing a fit over it for the last 3 weeks

Also its about what you want. Not that SHE wants your fil there. Not like he will be in the or while you're having the csection.

Well she doesn't have a say even if she does go. You're the patient, not her. You're also an adult not a minor AND she isn't your mother or guardian, you just live with her so the doctor doesn't take orders from her.

@laciemarie, my fil comes in from a business trip that night and she wants him there. @arivera64, @laurelkathryn0614, normally she wouldn't but she's literally coming to my appointed to make sure I don't schedule it that day. I told her I might not have a choice since my doctors don't want me going over 37 weeks and she said then I'll go and make sure they will wait one extra day cause it won't hurt anything.

Why does your mil gave a say in when you choose your delivery date?

Why not??