Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
Fuck man, my boyfriend's car flipped over on the highway. He had me connected to his speaker in his car and I just heard him screaming and the car flipping over.. He blacked out.. I called him and he seems okay but fuck man. I heard everything. I thought he died.. He's almost gotten ran off the road in Abilene 3 times already and now this..
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
I'll try a few more things before taking him to early intervention. I'm still trying to keep that as my last option. Definitely popsicles tho. So I'm thinking some more time with messy play and some more creative things for him. Hoping I'll see a change soon.
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
Popsicles! That's cute.i haven't tried that.that will definitely be my next activity to try with him. I'll try that to keep him busy while I get his paint station together. He would love that.
Faith·
Мама троих детей
@farrahp08, yes I bet he would love that! What little boy doesn't like getting messy I know my son loves it when I let him get messy with paint. Maybe check out Pinterest I've found some pretty cool things to do. I'm gonna start making popsicles with my son this summer. Maybe you guys can make popsicles together.
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
Thanks @dreamie702, I didn't know they could test him for me for free. I was told the services can be expensive. I will check this out as well. Thank you so much.i have run out of ideas. And I just want to be sure everything is ok with him. I appreciate your advice
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
Thank you @jaxxmommie22, I can try more fun days with him. He loves being outside. Maybe we can play more sports together.ive had him in some toddler play dates before. He does ok for a bit but it doesn't last long..he's really into paint to. I was thinking of making a paint station in the toy room for just the two of us to make a mess together .
Faith·
Мама троих детей
Maybe have a fun day with just you and him and have him pick things to do or maybe find other kids his age he can play with.
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
He gets a lot of my attention and love. I'm asking for advice not judgement. I care dearly for my son
Farrah ·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)
Thanks for the advice and this is what I do. And I'm not getting anywhere.