would you message a female if your SO and her have been messaging each other? even if he doesn't know you know?

but its on Facebook, the messages are on Facebook. and its an old coworker of his and everyone knew at his old work and new employment knows he has a girlfriend also has a baby on the way.

Just respectfully let the woman know what's been going on and if she could inform you about the conversations...majority of the time if you come with respect, let her know it isn't her fault she may or may not have known his relationship status, the other woman will probably comply. @gracie96 and then after that, dig a deep hole in his ass!

I'd comfort them both, I'm just that type though.. but I also agree with @beebaby

@beebaby Excatly.

she's in her 40s with 3 kids which her oldest is 15 years old... like really? I know Im pregnant and getting bigger but come on really

Girls are evil so she'll tell you

I'd message her and just ask whats been going on

I saw 1 message that he sent to her. I didn't wanna go on reading anymore. some of my friends are telling me to tell him, some are telling me to message her and some are telling me to right until the baby is born

what would you say? I Dont want my boyfriend knowing I went through his phone but my depression has been kicking in ever since.

Hellllll yea lol. I guess it depends on the messages that theyre sending back and forth. Ive had to message a girl before and tell her to stop messaging him. I was very very polite at first but once she kept on messaging him is when i got angry. @gracie96

@gracie96 yup