my mom and sister are constantly running off to do things together. whether it's going to Walmart in a different town, out to eat, see a movie. I'm never invited. they never tell me about it, they hide it. even when I was living with my mom. so today my sister asked if I could babysit tonight so she could go out with a "friend", I knew she was going to see 50 shades darker. so I asked why she didn't invite me. she told me I could come if I could find a baby sitter for my kids. comes to find out it was with my mom and my brothers girlfriend. they all were gonna go & ask me to babysit. am I wrong for being upset? they think I'm over reacting. but I'm pretty hurt by this.
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@mommy.to.a.prince I used to live with her. but she comes over every now and then.
@6215teenmom, well do what I do with my mom.. invite her over and hang with you guys once or twice a week and then he can't get mad. Does she see your kids often?
@mommy.to.a.prince he does sometimes. mostly only because he has the kids while I'm in school everyday and he never gets a break. so it's usually only because he wants some time away.
@6215teenmom, does your boyfriend get mad when you go out with her or without him anywhere?
Yeah, my mom will hold everything that she ever did over me.
@mommy.to.a.prince she just tells me that she's just closer to her, or tries and says she doesn't ask me because she always thinks my boyfriend will get mad. and she told me she's favored her because she's her middle child so they are closer.
You have every right to feel mad and upset! I would be to if I was excluded from everything. I'm always with my mom and I'm sure my hubby feels left out since I do everything with her and my son on weekends but I always invite him he just never wants to come. Have a private talk with your mom and tell her how you feell
@mimiroxy16 thats rude!! You should of told them then they watch the dogs!
@andrewsmommy I meant that my sister offered to pay for me once I got upset about it.
Oh see how fast they were to say yes when you offered to pay... I wouldn't even go any more.
I understand. I had a fight with my fiancé at a family get together. Nobody knew but I had our one year old son and my mom kept pawning her dogs on me and would get mad when I would tell her know and then she would get all dramatic and tell me I don't help her and whatever she'd do it herself. I'm like okay well you should've left them at home. I was annoyed and then my family said she should've brought the other daughter the nice one who helps and isn't mean.
@horsenjesuslvntxgirl they finally invited me when I got upset and offered to pay. but I still don't really feel like I was wanted to come.
But they'll ask if he can pick up one of the nephews from school. It got to a point he started saying no and they would get mad. Why should he do them a favor when they leave him out? And then we come upstairs and their there, they'll stop their convo and laughs because we are there. They'll start whispering.
@mimiroxy16 my mom has always favored her, one time she said it's because she's her middle child. still I'm hurt😔😔
I don't think you're overreacting at all! I would be mad and hurt too. That is very disrespectful to treat you that way. I wouldn't babysit for them if I were you and find my own friends to go out with. Just because they are blood doesn't mean they are "family".
No you have a right to feel the way you do.. Same thing with my babydaddy and his mom and sister. We just talked about this last night. His mom and sister will go out early in the morning while we're all asleep to go have coffee or shop. They never invite us. Me idc personally im not much of a going out person. My babydaddy feels left out all the time. His mom will take her 2 grandsons to the park and wont invite our son. She only has 1 son and 1 daughter but he feels like shes more of his sisters bestie than her mom.
No sounds really mean. I would be upset
Ohhhh I see. I see my mom about 4-5 times a week, including all day on saturdays and some sundays