Okay moms! Keep in mind I've had 2 C Sections. So some women feel like women who has had a c section is considered lazy and that they never really gave birth. Me being the person with no filter always speak my mind and have my reasons on why i (and my obgyn) made the decision. in the end, a c section was going to be the result due to complications. Mom shaming is ridiculous. i know someone who shamed anyone who had a c section. this person was also pregnant with their 1st child. she was soo big on how she didn't want a scar and all that crap. soo then her water breaks and began to have serious complications. her ending result was a emergency c section. moral of my rant is that majority of the women who have c sections are from complication or what's best for mom and baby. that's all we want in the end is a healthy baby and mom.
okay im done... for now 😒😂
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@armstrong2 and @ all moms. I'm very sorry that any human would treat anyone in such a manner as this. Not every decision made is made by you. Personally I couldn't care less if the woman DID request a C-section because she didn't want to go through labor. why does anyone care. The woman had a baby. How she went through that is her business. I find it amazing that the only people who give respect to a woman's choice and her body are pro lifers... NO I'm not opening that can I'm just saying if she's having a baby why care how? It's not you, you are not the one going through it. Gah people annoy me. Why can't we all live and let live and just be happy another life entered the world because a woman loved enough to go through whatever she had to to bring it here.
@krider_randi from my 2nd experience i knew what what was going to happen. but my baby girl got stuck as they were trying to pull her out. she was 9lbs 7oz. they pulled me open more which caused my recovery to move slow. but that's not for all women and their 2nd births.
I had my first via emergency c section and am thinking about going ahead and opting for a scheduled c section this time around with baby #2 any thought?
If anyone think c sections are the "lazy" way out they are completely ignorant!
@dreamermom right. no matter your route of delivery its always someone in the back shaming how you deliver. i hate it!
@momof3cuties my first was supposed to be scheduled but then my blood pressure put me and my baby in danger. my 2nd was scheduled
It's ridiculous how people always feel they have to put someone down for how they brought their child into the world... I never look down on anyone, especially someone who had to literally been cut in half to do it! I know people who have had about every type of birth... Amazingly, I was able to have a natural birth no pain meds... and I still have people who try to make me feel like it was less because my daughter was a preemie, so because I only pushed out a 4lb 1oz baby... I did not really 'give birth' 🙄 so no matter how you do it, someone is ALWAYS going to find a reason why it's not good enough! Like because you did it differently that somehow makes them less of a woman! 😒🙄
I've had 3 and my first I labored for 14 hrs and she flat lined so it was a hurry and rush thing to get her out and breathing again. My next 2 was scheduled
@mamasbabies . 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 yess girl. my oldest was growing fast and to be on the safe side (because of my size) he told me c section was best. of course i wanted to experience the nature of a vaginal child birth. but close to my date my blood pressure sky 🚀 and me as well as my little one was in danger. its a lot! recover is THE WORST. well from my experience. but in the end i got a beautiful 10lb 1oz baby. VBAC was not an option with my daughter because i don't like the method
Hi. Ive had 3 csections myself and feel the same way you do about mom shaming on csections. Woman who dont go thru it never understand. It takes a g to have a csection and get up afterwars and take care of ur child. And those woman who do mom shame csections are very uneducated ignorant people. Csections are always and only performed due to medical complication. Not because a mom decided she was lazy and didnt wanna push. It dont work like that.
yes, so true. I had to have an emergency c section. people need to worry about their birth story not mine. A C section is major surgery and does not mean a woman is lazy.