Hi all, I am 12+2 weeks pregnant. I have now had 2 scans (one at 8 weeks and another yesterday) I feel no emotions towards the baby. My OH tries to bond with the bump and it annoys me to the point where I tell him to move. I feel like a bad mom already as I can't "bond" with my unborn child.

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chasingheartsx

My partner don't understand, he keeps calling me lazy and I'm scared that the way I feel will ruin our relationship

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winterbaby95
Bethany·Мама дочки (9 лет)

You can get antenatal depression...hun...i didnt bond properly with my daughter until she was at least 7 months old xx

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chasingheartsx

Yeah if that would help.

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Would you be open to go and talk to your gp about your feelings? @chasingheartsx x

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chasingheartsx

The pregnancy was planned, we had been trying for 9 months before I concieved. I did have depression for a while when younger.

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Perhaps it hasnt sunk in yet, did you not plan the pregnancy and also do you suffer with depression? All things could be why u feel like that @chasingheartsx

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