A little vent here:
My mother/step father are alcoholics. I love them but obviously keep a close eye when they are holding/playing with my son. Last night, my step dad was asking how I would feel if they took him on vacation (without me or my husband). I didn't understand this request. I told him no. Then he got very upset that I would deprive him of a family vacation with my 3 month old son and started demanding reasons why not. I simply just told him that he is my son and I will decide if he goes on a vacation or not but furthermore that if he goes on a family vacation his parents should be there! (But I really wanted to say it's because they drink so much I can't trust them at all).

My stepdad never had children and I feel is trying to live vicariously thru my son and act as if it's his own (he has a way of making everything about him). But this really made me very mad.
I needed to vent before I said something I would regret!!

Blah! Rant over.