Ladies! Please tell me I'm not over dramatic right now. Here's what happened last night. I'm ebf. No bottles, no pumping…

@korahleah_11 u welcome 😇😘

Thank you ❤❤❤@alliaddiabbi131516,

@korahleah_11 yeaaay hope God helps ya get better 😇

Thank you! We had a talk about it and he's getting a little better. Just hope it stays that way. @alliaddiabbi131516,

Oh my that's so sad I am so sorry for u... @korahleah_11

@korahleah_11, that's usually how it goes.

Yes ma'am! Excalty! We are going to work on it for sure. He wants to take me to dinner now lol kiss ass @inkedmommy327,

@korahleah_11, 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 good for you girl! Now if I was you I would show him different things to do so help soothe your baby. If he doesn't want to learn then he can help you some other way. (Make his own lunch, clean up etc.)

Response. @inkedmommy327, @mrscourtneylynndavis2016,

Thanks girly!!! @mrscourtneylynndavis2016,

Stand your ground sister, don't give in

Yeah he's probably trying out how to say sorry again. lol I mean I love him to death but I've been there done with this with my other sons dad and I'm not gunna go threw this again! & he knows better. I expected so much more from him! @mrscourtneylynndavis2016,

Go figure lol he probably won't because he knows you are right

Yup!!! He still hasn't said anything back lol @mrscourtneylynndavis2016,

Get him girl...he need to step up

Yes! Definitely heard those words before lol! And I think he was being a dick yesterday cause he got his MRI results back on his back and he's gunna need surgery again so he's stressed about that. He's only 25 going on his second back surgery but still I'm your wife. It's not my fault! & hes really bad about taking his anger out on me but idk I guess cause I'm the only one around but still doesn't make it right @inkedmommy327,

@korahleah_11, I sometimes have to lose my shit so that my husband knows I'm being serious. And I'm quick to call him out on his bullshit... I tell him stuff like "It's not my fault you had a shitty day" or "Don't be a dick with me cuz you're tired, you aren't the only one that's tired." And he usually changes his attitude or doesn't say much after

Yeah I understand. & it's definitely harder it seems like when breastfeeding cause like all my son wants is me especially when he's fussy or hungry and I think that discourages him too. But his attitude is just so shitty when he gets in those moods & im the one who gets the raft of him and it sucks cause i try not to be a bitch but I feel like I'm gunna snap & I don't want that. He still hasn't replied yet so I'm just waiting to see what he says @inkedmommy327,

@korahleah_11, before we had our son my husband didn't really have any experience with babies so he would get frustrated and discouraged when he couldn't soothe him the way I could so most of the time it wasn't that he didn't want to help it was cuz he really didn't know how. So I really had to work with him and show him what worked with our son.

Yes I agree. And i think it's just upsets me more because I feel like he acts like I'm asking him to do brain surgery. I mean I just needed you to hold him for a second, or get me swabs. Like calm down it's not that big of a deal 😔 ugh @inkedmommy327,

I would think so too. Like it's so simple lol. We eat. We watch tv. And when we go to bed. Raiden gets changed from his pamper and clothes and goes to bed. Then we changed the baby and change his diaper and his belly button, put him down and then IF anything needs to picked up that's what we do. Super simple. But idk. Men these days lol 🙄 @nowmrspost,

I totally get it. My husband goes through phases of the same thing. I have to remind him that he has to help at least every few months. I think as men they don't realize how much a stay at home mom actually does everyday. And they won't until they experience it themselves

my hubby usually doesn't mind doing things (even before marriage or having our child)... I'd just need to ask. but if it's routine things with your hubby, he should kinda get the hint I would think lol

I tried to let it go, but it's the same thing over and over every day girl. Like I knows he tired. He works his ass off! & I don't expect him to get up at night or anything like that you know? But if I ask him to get him one little then he should be happy to? That's how I feel lol. Like I don't wanna fight but I feel like even if he does say sorry he still doesn't get the point on what needs to change. & he says "teach him" but he's 25 years old. I feel like he should realize what needs to change but maybe I'm giving him to much credit @hiswifetheirmama,

Thank you! My oldest isnt biologically his but he's been his "daddy" for the past two years. But I mean i got my oldest. But my newborn is his and he's been to step it up. I don't expect a whole lot from him. But it's the little things he could do. @mylilangel,

your definetly not dramatic gun he chose to have kids too if those are his kids as well and he needs to step up to the plate and be a better father and husband to you guys what you said was perfectly fine and if he gets mad over what you said he's obviously stupid.