Need a little advice mamas!
Need a little advice mamas!
So me & my husband have been really not getting along, not a day goes by we don't argue. We have a 1 year old that throws tantrums & a 2 month old & everything has been nothing but stress! Today he asked me to do something on his phone and I seen in his history he has nothing but porn websites. We haven't been having sex at all. And it's starting to make me feel some type of way, unattractive because instead of him telling me come on let's go to the bedroom, he decides to watch porn.
Does he watch porn because he doesn't like sex with me? Or am I not attractive to him? Only he can give me the real answers but just want to know if anyone has been through this...
it's not a good feeling.
Brittney Rumsey·
Мама троих детей
Agree with everyone. My hubs was the same way after our youngest was born. I was just so stressed and tired that he didn't want to add the pressure of sex to my hot mess.
💗Marcy👑·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
my husband did the same thing....I had to put a stop to it cause I have needs too ...n if he is getting off n not me that's not cool
Michelle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (31 нед.)
^^^ i agree with her... second of all have two kids thats young is HARD! Imagine how stressed out you are, he gets stressed out too... also, make a pact to have sex so many times a week its a huge stress relief or blow him if you dont like sex that often... my husband and i make sure to either have sex or give him oral atleast once a week (usually something every other day honestly) hes not into porn but it keeps us from fighting way more
Christie ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Hope I didn't overstep, sorry
Christie ·
Мама дочки-младенца
He might be watching porn just because he thinks you don't want to have sex with the fighting and all. He might be horny but doesn't want to initiate it, so he goes for porn. I have an idea of what you are going through, I just went to him and talked about us compromising more instead if fighting. For the sex part, I went all in. 😏😉 Sexy it up more than usual. If there's still porn after that, it might just be a fun activity for him. If during sex, there's no connection from him, you might need to talk to e.o