I have a question for people and I really hope I don't get bashed or put down because I have gone through enough... I moved 1900 miles to get away from an abusive relationship. He doesn't know where I am but we have a son together. I never wanted to keep his son from him, but I tried everything to keep our family together so this wouldn't happen and it ended up with me and my son having police escorting us to a shelter, and me moving where I never dreamed I would so I can have support from family. My question is what should I do? He asks to see him all the time and wants to Skype. my son asks for his dad too. I'm trying to protect myself as much as possible, but I don't want him not in his life.. I'm scared what might happen if he does see him, because he has threatened to take him and disappear. . we don't have anything in place as far as custody. My friend says he is using the baby to control me again and I believe it too. Please don't judge because I have been through a lot with him in 4 and a half years.. I was diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety and Post Partum Depression.. He was the reason for most of it and I had to save myself. Just wondering if anyone has been through a similar situation and want to know what my next steps should be thank you.