I know I shouldn't be worried about this THIS early but I'm nervous about my baby's first birthday.
Okay, I'm currently in a relationship (not the father) and my BD hates my BF just because I've started dating my BF shortly after having my son. I've known my boyfriend for a while (high school days) We rekindled.
But I've been playing out how that day will go my BF has been here since I've gave birth and been in my son's life every step of the way. I don't want to tell my BF he can't attend my sons birthday all because of my baby's dad because from my boyfriends view my baby's dad is not an active father but he do for my son if needed, he's just not around. I want to avoid conflicts because they really don't like each other AT ALL! Any advice or similar cases
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have separate bday parties if your ex can't grow up n be a dad for your baby...if you don't get the boundaries set now and get him on a level of respect for your current bf then this will happen forever and will get worse trust me...my ex was feeling the same way about my hubby but I just nipped it right away and told him if you can't be a man and a dad then we will do separate parties n that's how it's been ever since but also we live in different cities now but they get along now it's been 6 yrs but it took 3 yrs to get it to this point
never put ur current bf on the outs for ur ex that will hurt ur home