how do u know which person in at fault.. like we fight a lot lately. most of r cause of baby mamas.. he expects me to have a relaxed attitude. i feel he gets bossed around. whatever. but inwas on the phone with my mother and he was on the ohone with his friend. and cause i interrupted him during his phone call cause i remembered something he go upset or said m yea i know im not stupid. like attitude. then he comes back at me saying i am being disrespectful and i am on the phone with my mom and now my mom kinda doesnt like how he speaks to me